Subspace Is Not A Dream, It’s An Experience

January 21, 2009

If you ask ten different slaves what subspace is, chances are good
that you will get ten different answers. And that’s because
subspace is truly an individual experience that can be created
through slave training, but is hard to define.

One of the main concerns with subspace is that because the
definition is so vague, it’s hard to tell when and if it actually
occurs. Some people believe it’s a physical response, while others
think that it’s an emotional change. In any case, sometimes
hindering yourself with such a definition can cause more problems
with achieving this state.

Still others think that you have to have subspace in order to ‘win’
as a Dominant, but this is not the case. Though you do want to
create a feeling in your slave that they are moving out of the pain
of punishment or the feeling that they are being objectified, just
because they don’t hit this subspace ‘ideal’ doesn’t mean that the
slave training has not worked or has not been successful.

Subspace is a collection of things, depending on who you ask. For
some, it’s the sensation of being out of the body and away from the
events that are going on. This detachment from the body causes the
slave to be able to ‘take’ more pain and more verbal attacks from a
Dominant, often also resulting in the slave complying with every
wish without hesitation or without any resistance. The slave is
sort of a ‘super slave’ at this point – able to do everything that
their Dominant wishes of them.

Another idea is that subspace is the point at which the body begins
to produce endorphins in order to fend off physical pain. This
rush of chemicals in the body makes the slave feel good and allows
them to forget about anything that might be uncomfortable. Their
brains are telling them that all is right with the world. This
feeling can continue from the scene into the moments and hours
after the scene is over.

Whether subspace is purely an emotional reaction to a scene due to
its intensity or a physical one, the obvious question is how you
can use it in slave training situations. Not only does this
mindset allow the slave to endure more from the Dominant, but it
also feels good, so it’s clear that once you ‘give’ this to a slave
during a scene, they will work actively to recreate that feeling.
This might mean that they need the Dominant to continuously build
the intensity of their work together or that they need to focus
more on overcoming sensations that might not be pleasant at first
in order to move into that subspace realm.

In any case, subspace is something that is worth trying to create
in a scene. This can be done by preparations by both the Dominant
and the slave. The Dominant can increase the chance of this
situation by watching the reactions of the slave during a scene to
see how much more they can take and when they are entering a
different mindset. Once they have begun to enter subspace, they
can then begin to push the scene further to enhance the training.
The slave that wants to achieve subspace should be ready to work
through any initial resistance to their training in order to move
into this other space. This might mean mentally preparing
themselves or simply breathing through pain that they might feel.

Subspace is something that may not be achieved by everyone, but
since it is such a hot topic in BDSM, it’s obvious that it’s
something that might be possible.

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Keep your eyes peeled for the next edition which will arrive in a
couple of weeks!

In the mean time, take a moment to read about how The BDSM Slave
Training Guide can teach you more effective strategies to reaching
subspace (using our step-by-step instructional manual, pictures, and
diagrams). Visit:

The BDSM Training Guide

Regards,

Mistress Sophia
&
Master Bishop

support@bdsmtrainingacademy.com

P.S. If you liked this article, please take a minute to e-mail
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A Kinky Suprise For Valentine’s Day

January 14, 2009

Valentine’s Day is coming upon U/us. Whether you’re a romantic or a kinkster at heart this is a day of passion, pleasure and maybe even a little pain…if you’re lucky.

If you’re looking for something nice to show your partner you care or just looking for something to show them you’re ready to heat things up in your play.

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Get something special that will heighten the mood on valentine’s day not take away from it.

Regards,

Mistress Sophia

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The Keys To Role Play

January 9, 2009

How To Get The Most Out Of A Role Play Scene

Role playing can be an amazing way to turn up the intensity of any
sexual relationship, but even more so in a bdsm partnership. When
you add the element of role playing, you can further create a sense
of authority and control in a scene. But there are good ways to do
this and bad ways to do this. Here is what you need to know before
you get started.

First of all, find out what your partner might fantasize about in
terms of role play. Does he or she think about being a naughty
student and you as the controlling teacher? Maybe they’re into the
policeman and criminal scenario? Take some time to talk with your
partner about potential scenes that you can do with these roles.
You can even go shopping together to find the appropriate costumes
to wear. Using costumes is actually a great way to get you both
‘into’ the scene that you are going to do.

Once you’ve determined what you want to explore, try to figure out
exactly what makes that fantasy so hot for your partner. Is it the
outfits? The dirty talk? The spanking? By talking with your
partner as well as thinking about the role playing that you want to
do, try to figure out what’s most important from this scene for
them as well as for you. This will intensify the experience and
help you both get into the roles more easily.

Another way to make sure the role play works well for you is to
make sure that you’re staying in character as much as you can.
Talk dirty or use medical speak in a doctor – patient scene. Make
the area where you are playing look like a place the role play
could occur. Set up ‘props’ that will help you both get in the
mood. You want to make the ‘real’ world go away for the time being.

When you’re new to role playing, you also want to keep in mind that
not everything will go right – that’s inevitable. So, make sure
that you’re not being too serious about keeping things in the role
play. What matters is that you’re both having a good time. If
your accent for the French prostitute isn’t perfect, don’t sweat
it. And if that rope tie falls apart, simply fix it and move on
with the scene. When you let things get to you during a scene,
they will disrupt the scene more than these little ‘problems.’

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More tips to make your role play work:
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* Research the role you want to play – Read stories about the
character that you will be playing. You can also read erotica
stories that include this character to help you get more ideas on
what you can do.

* Switch things up – If your partner is interested, you might
want to switch up the roles every now and then too. Or you can
change roles in the middle of the role play, if that’s something
that you both want to do.

* Try new things – There are hundreds of different role play
games you can play, why not try them all?

* You really don’t need anything but a vivid imagination – You
don’t need to have the right clothes or props to have a fun role
play.

* Talk about the role play afterwards – Discuss what worked and
what didn’t after the role play so that you can just get better
with each time you try.

Role playing is a fun thing to add to your BDSM scenes as it gives
both partners a sense of being someone else for a while – and that
can lead to intense games of control and power. Isn’t that what
you want after all?

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Keep your eyes peeled for the next edition!

Read about more ways to enhance your role playing so you can
experience the true freedom of being someone else in the bdsm slave
training guide (using our step-by-step instructional manual,
pictures, and diagrams). Visit:

BDSM Slave Training Guide

Regards,

Master Bishop
&
Mistress Sophia

support@bdsmtrainingacademy.com

P.S. If you liked this article, please take a minute to e-mail
your friends and let them know about it. Thanks!

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Happy New Year

January 1, 2009

I just wanted to take this time and wish everyone a happy new year. 09 is definitely going to be bring some changes but hopefully most of the changes will be for the better.

I know that W/we at the BDSM training academy had a very tough year in 08, but W/we also got some new additions to the team. In the end everything worked out for the better.

In 09 W/we hope to continue to spread the bdsm positive message throughout the world. To provide a safe, sane, encouraging, and supportive environment for everybody to learn and grow from.

I want to wish everybody all the best in 09 and continued growth in your journey.

Regards,

Master Bishop

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