Dealing with Resistance to Slave Training

May 26, 2009

I know it sounds shocking that a slave would resist
but it does happen. This is an important lesson for a Dominant and
submissive to understand:

Though the question of whether or not punishment is an effective
way to deal with resistance to slave training, the answer of just
how to deal with slave training resistance is somewhat unclear.
But what is clear is the idea that resistance to slave training is
something you need to address as quickly as possible in your slave
and Master relationship.

While you might find it cute that a slave is being disobedient…at
first, the fact of the matter is that this willful disobedience
isn’t getting you or your slave anywhere. If you are truly looking
to create a relationship in which your slave submits to you, you
need to be ready to nip this kind of disobedience in the bud as
soon as possible – otherwise, you might have a relationship on your
hands that doesn’t satisfy either of you.

When a slave is resistant to training, it’s not just the fault of
the slave; it’s also the fault of the Master. If you haven’t
clearly outlined what you want from them and how you want certain
things to be done, they may not be resistant to the training – but
just unclear as to your expectations. Resistance truly is a two
way street in a BDSM relationship, so it needs to be addressed on
both sides.

From the side of the Master, you need to create a clear set of
instructions that have been explained to your slave and that they
are fully aware they are responsible for. Of course, if this list
is quite long, they can not be expected to learn them all at once -
but they should know what is expected of them as your time together
goes on. There should also be a clear set of punishments and
outcomes for whenever they have not met your expectations.

The Master in charge needs to know this list explicitly. You need
to be sure that you can hold your slave up to each of the
expectations, so that means you need to know what is on that list
verbatim. If you don’t know what you should instruct your slave,
but your slave does, it can set the tone for resistance.

If you have clearly laid out the instructions for your slave and
they still resist, they need to realize that there will be
penalties. What these are can be between the two of you, but they
need to be dealt out as soon as possible. Any lag times in the
punishment for the ‘crime’ will denigrate the slave training you
have started. The punishment must also be fitting for the mistakes
they have made in order to show what the offenses mean to their
relationship with you and your training setup.

In the end, you might need to deal with constant resistance in one
way – by letting the slave out of your relationship. This might
seem like a harsh move, but when you are constantly expending
energy to try to train and mold a slave without any results, this
is simply not worth your time or their time either.
What you need to recognize is that resistance in slave training can
be the fault of both the slave and the Master, so it should be
approached from both directions. The Master has a responsibility
to let the slave know about their responsibilities and the slave
has a responsibility to act as instructed.

While the end of a slave and Master relationship is the last
resort, it sometimes is better than having to try to train a slave
that is simply unwilling to hold up their end of your contract
together.

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May 21, 2009

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After a Bad BDSM Scene, What Do You Do?

May 15, 2009

Just like a bad date, you might feel awkward and confused after a bad BDSM session. Maybe the slave couldn’t reach any of the goals set by the Master or Mistress, or the Master or Mistress just couldn’t get the slave to do anything they wanted them to do. Whatever happened, the session just didn’t go as planned. Both parties might be feeling bad at the end of the session and neither may know what to do. But these things happen. It’s what you do after a bad session that helps to predict whether another one is going to happen.

Find Out What Went Wrong

You can’t fix a problem until you figure out what went wrong in the first place. You will want to sit down together after a bad scene, maybe in a day or two, to help figure out what happened. This meeting should take place outside of the bedroom and be when you are both calm and not in a rush to be anywhere. You need to have the time to sit down and honestly talk about what went wrong from your perspective. Both parties should have an opportunity to talk and to use ‘I’ statements in order to be as non-threatening as possible as you speak. Or you might have both parties just write out what they think went wrong and then share these pieces of writing with each other – via email or in person. Another thing to keep in mind is that you don’t want to list every little thing that went wrong. Just keep your list to no more than 3 things that you feel needed to be improved.

Make a Plan for the Next Time

Once you have determined what you think may have gone wrong, it’s time to figure out how you can avoid these issues in the future. This requires being a bit more diligent about planning your sessions ahead of time. While you might not have to plan ahead in the past, it is especially important when you are trying to overcome a problem with the last session or two. Sit down, talk about the session, what will happen, and what the goals will be. This way, you can focus on what you’re doing right from this point on and then if further adjustments need to be made, then you can try another plan from that point on.

Accept That Things Happen

Of course, you need to be realistic. Even the best BDSM relationships will have troubles from time to time. Someone might be tired or stressed, or someone might just make a mistake without realizing it until later. Instead of stressing out about the misstep, you need to realize that most of the time, things will go just the way you plan. But at other times, they will not – and that is okay. The mistakes are a great wakeup call to reassess the way things are going and how you might want to change things to make them even better. And while it might be tempting to blame one person or the other for things that happen, addressing the problem as a team will ensure that once-in-a-while problems don’t become long term issues.

The good news is that 99% of the time, you won’t have significant problems in your BDSM relationship – or, at least, no more so than you would have in any other relationship. The only real trouble happens when you don’t address the issue when it first happens. Address the problem, make a plan to avoid the mistakes in the future, and then accept that you have done all you can. That’s the way to encourage smoother sailing in the future.

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responsible for any use of the information in this article, and
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harmless in any claim or event.

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