Ramping Up Your BDSM Play

June 24, 2009

You might come to a point in your BDSM play when you begin to feel
like you can do more. Whether you’re a Dom/me or a sub, you might
get to a point when you feel as though things need to be a little
heavier in order to bring you pleasure. This is a natural
progression in most BDSM relationships. Although, it’s far more
common for the Dominant person to want to increase the intensity
for their sub first, so what do you do then? How can you help to
intensify the experience for everyone in a safe and satisfying way?

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Starting Slowly Has Its Benefits

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If you’ve just started experimenting with BDSM, chances are good
that you’re just naturally curious about what else is out there and
what else you can do to make things even more fun. But if you’ve
only been playing around with BDSM for a few weeks, it might be a
better idea to continue learning before you start making things
more intense for both parties in the relationship. Right now, your
goal should be to learn about the basics of BDSM – communication,
limitations, and whatever sorts of play you are both interested in.
Once you understand how to play safely and you’re having a good
time, then you can start to talk to your partner about increasing
the sensations and the experience.

But doing this too quickly can turn off both partners and
potentially sour the BDSM experience for everyone. Learn what you
can first and once you’ve ‘mastered’ the basics, then it’s time to
move up the BDSM ladder of possibilities.

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Talking Over Limits

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Obviously, you’re not just going to increase the any sensations
without talking to your partner first. Find a time when you and
your partner are not occupied and begin to discuss what you would
like to try and then talk to them about things they might want to
try as well. Listen to each other and try to come to a happy
compromise about what you both want to experience.

If your sub is a bit nervous about pushing themselves in the play
space, you will want to make sure to create safewords that will
help them have an ‘out’ if things are just too much. Discuss how
this word should be used, when it should be used and impress upon
your partner that you will stop immediately when you hear that
word. Its all about making them feel safe and comfortable with you.

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Pushing the Edges of Your Play

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It’s a good thing to push the boundaries of your BDSM experience
from time to time because it helps you both create a more exciting
experience. By pushing past your limitations, you not only get a
more intense experience, but you will also get a greater rush of
adrenaline. In addition, exploring your own boundaries with
someone else will enhance your trust in each other, and it will
help you both to have a stronger relationship as a result.

You never know how far you can go until you try to go further than
you’ve already been. That said, you don’t ever have to
go any further than you want to if you’re not interested. That’s
why you talk over the potential changes to your relationship first.
If there’s no room for compromise, there’s no room for change.

If you partner refuses to budge on their limits, then you must
respect this. But if these new ideas are something you have to try
or you need in your life then perhaps this is a sign you need a new
partner to share what you want from your BDSM play. This does not
mean you leave your partner because they don’t want to try it right
away or are unsure. Many things need to be considered when
deciding to leave a serious long term Dom/sub relationship.

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Checking in at the End of a Session

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If you decide to push things a bit further in a play session, make
sure to check in with your partner at the end to see how it worked
for them. By communicating about what works and what did not, you
can both learn from the experience and change things as needed.
This time can also help you brainstorm other things you might want
to try in the future. Be honest and you’ll not only be able to
continuously grow in your BDSM relationship, but you will also
continue to be healthy and safe as you play.

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Preventing Injury In BDSM

June 15, 2009

Accidents certainly happen in the world of BDSM – especially to newer players on the scene. But just because you will certainly have something go wrong at some point doesn’t mean that you need to simply sit back and wait for it to happen. You can take steps to help not only prevent problems, but also you can learn how to handle accidents and injuries when they occur. After all, when you’re in the middle of an intense scene, do you stop what you’re doing? Or do you simply pretend nothing has happened until the scene is done? Those are questions you need answered before you step back into your version of a dungeon.

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Have Safety Measures in Place
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The best way to deal with injuries during your BDSM play is not to have them at all. If you can prevent major injuries from happening, you will not only have a long ‘career’ in BDSM, but you will also have a happy and content Master/Mistress and slave. Some of the easiest ways to help prevent injuries from occurring include:

* Start off slowly – It’s never a good idea to simply try something out without starting off at a slow and steady pace. Anything you do too quickly is something that could cause damage to another person. Whether you’re tying a rope too quickly or moving into a position too quickly, you’re going to get hurt. In the beginning especially, you don’t have to move like a slug, but you should move slowly enough that you can keep yourself safe.

* Watch your surroundings – Often, injuries occur when you’re not aware of what’s around you. Watch your head and your limbs to make sure you’re not going to run into anything while in the midst of a session. The floor should be cleaned of all dangerous items and there should be areas where sex toys can be placed when not in use.

* Have a safe word or signal in place – This will allow the slave to let you know when something is truly wrong. Without a safe word, the Master/Mistress needs to watch the slave very carefully to ensure that everything is okay.

* It is always a good idea to take a course and become certified in CPR and emergency first aid. Hopefully you will never have to use it, but always nice to have in your back pocket just in case.

* Learn before you try something – Instead of simply jumping into new BDSM ideas without knowing what you are doing, try taking some time to read up on the activities and really master them as much as possible. You can read books to help you better understand BDSM activities, such as The BDSM Slave Training Guide

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Equipment to Have on Hand
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Since BDSM can become dangerous, it will help for you to have a few simple things beside the bed:

* Emergency shears – These safety scissors are used by paramedics to cut clothes off of patients, but they can also be used to cut rope or tape in a hurry.

* Antiseptic cleaner and cotton pads – These will help to soothe and the clean any broken skin after a caning or other skin trauma.

* Ice packs – If there is bruising that shows up on the skin, a cold compress or ice pack can help to slow the bruise formation and can even reduce the swelling.

* A basic first aid kit is not a bad idea either when things happen during the sessions which are not planned. Often, the slave will assume they will get some sort of skin injury (a minor one, of course), so some bandages are nice to have around to prevent blood from getting onto their clothes.

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To Continue or Not to Continue?
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The injured person will then need to make the call as to whether they want to continue the session or not. Most injuries are minor, but they can become more troublesome if more pressure is applied to them. In most cases, it’s probably better to stop things, make sure everyone is okay, and then schedule a do-over when everyone is fixed back up.

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June 7, 2009

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