Happy Halloween

October 31, 2009

Its always nice to have a day when everybody can let loose and express their kinky side that has remained dormant all year. Of course if you’re involved in the lifestyle then you don’t need to wait for Halloween to dress up in your finest kink. It doesn’t mean that W/we can’t enjoy it just like everybody else.

So be naughty, play a few tricks and maybe you might just get a treat.

Happy Halloween From

Master Bishop and The BDSM Training Team

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The Importance of Keeping a Slave Training Journal

October 27, 2009

Keeping a record of your life is nothing new. From the time you
were young, like many other people before you, you might have kept a
secret diary into which you poured all of your dreams and
aspirations. As you’ve grown older and you’re now the slave of a
Master or Mistress, you might want to use that diary tool again -
this time as a slave journal. This written record of your work as
a slave can help you and your Master or Mistress in a number of
ways. And anything that can help you be the best slave possible is
one that will allow you to please your Master or Mistress each and
every day.

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What Should I Use?
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The journal can be as simple or as decorative as you like – check
with your Master or Mistress to see what they might like. Ideally,
it should be a journal which you can add pages to as this is
something which will continue to get longer as your relationship
continues. A 3 ring binder with looseleaf paper might be a good
way to keep your notes organized.

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For Your Master to Know What You Know
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The slave journal’s primary purpose is to ensure your Master or
your Mistress knows what’s going on in your head or in your slave
training. You might want to write down all of your feelings and
your concerns about your training here. This doesn’t mean you
should simply complain on each and every page, but you should begin
to process the events of each training session. Write about the
parts that you found difficult, challenging, or even embarrassing.
Think of this as a way for you to communicate how you feel your
training is going, as you are often the best person to grade this
progress. While your Master or Mistress will be able to guide you
in your training, having as much feedback as possible will help
everyone get the most out of their actions.

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Working Out Your Issues
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Of course, if you are having emotional issues that come up during
your sessions or between your time with your Master or Mistress,
this can be a great place to start to work out your emotions. In
doing so, you will begin to face your own problems on your own,
leaving your Master or Mistress free to worry about other things.
You might want to talk in your journal about things that might be
causing you to be distracted during your sessions, for example, or
you might want to talk about things you want to do for your Owner
in the future. This can also be a place to congratulate yourself
for things you’ve done well and boundaries you’ve crossed without
any trouble or resistance.

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Look at Your Progress
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As you continue to add to this slave journal, you will begin to see
just how far you’ve come in your training and in your mindset as a
slave. Whenever you begin to feel like you are faltering, you can
go back through the pages of this journal and see just how much
better a slave you have become. If you feel like you might need
more work in a certain area, you can also use this journal to see
how you approached a similar problem in the past. Like a slave
guide book, this journal can become a way to continuously become
better in the roles you are asked to take on.

Using a slave journal has become commonplace in the BDSM world for
one reason – it works. By allowing you to have a constant place
for communication with your Master or Mistress, as well as to have
a place to work through your problems as well as a format to track
your progress, this journal will become your training manual and a
way to keep your relationship moving in a positive and productive
direction.

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and ways to explore yourself and your submission in a much deeper
way to go ===> Slave Training Guide
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Master Bishop
&
Mistress Sophia

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How to Keep Your BDSM Relationship Private

October 14, 2009

While the world is becoming more and more accustomed to seeing images of sex and all of its many flavors of fetish, the fact remains that BDSM is still not a sexual practice that is widely accepted. As a result, it is probably a priority for you to hide your lifestyle. At the same time, you may not want to completely go into hiding with your domination and submission. So, is there a healthy compromise between having the relationship you want and the privacy you need?

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Keeping Things Under Wraps
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The easiest way to ensure that your sex life stays your sex life is to never, ever talk about it. It’s true. When you only talk about your BDSM life with your partner, there’s no need to worry that the secret will slip out or that you might mention something to someone who should not know. While this is certainly a surefire way to allow your BDSM relationship to stay hidden, it is not always easy. If you live with others or if you spend a lot of time with vanilla folks, you might find yourself accidentally referring to things you’ve done in the bedroom. It happens. So, perhaps it’s to possible to be completely quiet, but simply not talking about anything outside of your home is the best possible way of ensuring complete privacy.

Your contract might be enough proof to ensure that your sexual fetishes are consensual, so have a contract that spells out exactly what you and your partner like to do when you’re alone. This way, should the worst happen, you have some sort of record of your agreement with each other.

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Reasons for Telling Others
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Though you might not want to tell anyone about your BDSM life for fear of troubles with other relationships, with custody battles, etc., there are many valid reasons for letting others know what sorts of sex you might enjoy. For example, if one of you in your relationship might become injured or even die from any of your BDSM practices, you will have a harder time explaining things in this difficult situation. Thus, it might be wise to tell someone close to you things you might be enjoying in the bedroom. You need not be specific, but you will want to let them know that if they should ever find something that relates to BDSM, this is normal for your relationship and completely consensual.

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Subtle Ways of Playing Games
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Of course, sometimes it’s more thrilling when you know others might find out. So, you may want to try to keep up your BDSM power exchange when you are out in public. Subtle things like ‘Yes Master’ and ‘Yes Mistress’ can easily sink a sub and a Dominant back into their bedroom mindset and positions.

Of course there are more subtle ways to do this as well so only you and your partner will know. You can do things like always have the sub fetch drinks or walk behind their dominant. Another idea is to always have the submissive ask permission to do things, which looks endearing to others, but is just another way the sub can continue to be a sub when not in the bedroom.

Your BDSM relationship is no one else’s business but your own, however, sometimes privacy isn’t always realistic. If you are concerned about accidents happening, it would be wise to let at least one person in on your extracurricular activities. But, of course, make sure it’s someone you can trust. In the end, there is no right or wrong answer as to whether you tell others about your BDSM. Just keep in mind that certain members of society may think you abnormal – and might take actions to punish you for your perceived perversions.

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into your life visit ===> BDSM Slave Training Tutorial

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Master Bishop

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Using BDSM to Enhance Intimacy

October 1, 2009

While television and other media sources might have you believe that BDSM is just for the wicked and dangerous, this is not always the case. Though it’s true that BDSM is considered to be more of a fetish than an everyday sexual behavior, that does not mean it can not be just as fulfilling as the idea of making love. In fact, many couples have successfully used BDSM to restore and to increase the intimacy in their relationship. And you can too.

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Admitting Your Fantasies
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Often, relationships can sour when couples do not talk about the things they want in the bedroom. Symbolic of their own concerns about the relationship, these couples refuse to ask for what they want and thus never end up getting what they need. If a partner is interested in BDSM, why not express this desire? This will help to bring many other demons and issues out of the closet, while also allowing the couple to have a new avenue to explore as they begin to work out their concerns with each other.

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Testing Out Your Trust
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BDSM is not just about spanking and bondage – it’s the practice of ultimate trust between two (or more) people. The person who is being bound or who is being the submissive, or both, has to trust their partner not to hurt them and not to cause them irreversible pain. This person needs to trust their partner enough with their body and with their feelings in order to hand over control to them. The person who is providing the pain and the pleasure has to trust their partner as well. The dominant figure needs to trust that their partner will let them know when things aren’t going well, when they are hurt, when they are scared, etc. The balance of the trust between partners is crucial to successful BDSM and these lessons can then be taken from the bedroom to real life.

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The Harder It Is, the More You Gain
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Any difficult situation will bring a group of people together. Knowing that you have shared a difficult BDSM scene allows you to realize just how powerful you both are. In this team mentality, you can then begin to see that other problems you might face will also be scalable, will also be surmountable, and that anything is possible within your relationship – so long as you are together. Intimacy is created when you share these new and difficult experiences as you are brought closer and closer together by the things you learn about each other.

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Continuing the Connection
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But BDSM does not need to be left in the bedroom. By taking the lessons you’ve learned during sex and applying them to your relationship as a whole, you will find you are closer and stronger as a couple. Some of the lessons that can be applied outside the bedroom include:

Trusting each other to talk about what you need – As you would during a scene, realizing that you need to trust the other person to state their needs and what hurts them can help you during other relationship situations.
Trying new things – Sometimes relationships just need new energy in order to bring the partners closer together. Trying new things together will allow you to reignite that spark.
Facing your secrets – If you have secrets in your relationship, they will disintegrate your intimacy. In order to be closer, you need to let all of those demons out into the open.

Relationships aren’t easy and neither is true, pure BDSM. By looking at the lessons of each, you can begin to establish a deeper intimacy with your partner, now and in the future.

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Master Bishop

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