How to Remember Multiple Commands
November 30, 2009
In the course of being a slave, chances are good you will be doing a lot of things you’ve always dreamed of doing. Your life is becoming richer because of your experiences with your Dom/me and you feel as though you’ve grown as a person. However, no matter how happy you might be, many slaves have troubles with the idea of multiple commands. Some Masters enjoy having long lists of commands that they can instantly shout out and see the slave perform. These commands might include everything from presenting one’s self to the Master to doing certain things while in restricted positions. No matter what your Master might want you to do, it’s up to you to learn the commands so that they are second nature – and so you never miss a signal from your Dominant.
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Mnemonic Tricks
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One of the easiest ways to remember a string of commands it to create a mnemonic for this set of instructions. For example, if your Master wants you to present yourself, stand up, and turn around, you might think of the letters in the command that begin the instructions – P, S, and T. These letters might then be turned into something like a sentence or a phrase you might easily remember. You may have used this letter trick when you were in school to remember the colors of the rainbow – who doesn’t remember Roy G. Biv? These sorts of tricks work best when you have longer sets of commands or when your Master wants you to remember certain phrases or speeches during your play sessions. After your session, just write down all of the commands you can remember and then see if you can assign a phrase or a string of letters to that phrase.
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Practice Makes Perfect
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Of course, the most common way to remember multiple commands is simply to repeat them to yourself again and again. Keep repeating them to yourself as you practice the movements you are supposed to make. In doing so, not only are you burning those commands into your mind, but when you move your body, you are also creating muscle memory. Your body will ‘store’ these commands so that they become natural to you. You will also want your Master to work with you on the commands as their voice is going to be what you respond to most of the time – not your own voice. Again and again, practice will be the key to being the perfect slave when it comes to quick commands in a session.
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Study Up
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If you were a good student, you might want to take some of those studying lessons and apply them to learning multiple commands. For example, if you have certain numbers that are associated with certain positions, it might be a good idea to create flash cards that will help you remember what to do. If your Master will let you, take notes during the first session with the new commands and make the flash cards that day. This way, you can bring these cards with you everywhere to quiz yourself whenever you have the time. The more you repeat this flash card process in your mind, the more quickly you will be able to respond to the commands.
Yes, slave training can be a bit like school at times. You have lessons to learn and tests upon which you will be graded. In order to get the best ‘score’ possible, you need to treat your training like it was the most important schooling period of your life – because it is when you’re inside your sessions. Failing is simply not an option.
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Training a Slave When You Don’t Have Time
November 30, 2009
While it seems a little preposterous, those who have been Dominants for a while know that sometimes you just don’t have time for your slave. You enjoy the time you do have, but sometimes life is just messy and your play time can get interrupted by work, family life, and other obligations. However, this doesn’t mean you need to throw in the proverbial towel or hang up your whip. You can still train your slave; you just need to adjust your tactics and your methods for a bit. Your life might not settle down right away, so you need to learn ways to control your slave until you can spend the time and attention they deserve from you.
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Finding The Time To Train
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When it comes to things we love to do, chances are good we make the time for them. For example, if you like to run, you make time to run. But when it comes to your slave training, things might be a little stickier. This isn’t just about you, after all, it’s about the needs of your slave. Whether you realize it or not, it might feel like you don’t have the time, but in reality it’s just a case of not making your relationship a priority. It happens to everyone at some point. It might help if you look at your schedule and try to see what you are spending your time doing. Do you have different priorities right now? Or are you simply suffering from mismanaged time?
Try to come up with a few times each week when you are focusing only on your slave training. Actually write the times and dates in your day planner. That way you won’t book anything else into this time and you will be forced to focus on your slave training. You can begin to have that time to train again – or you can see that you actually are in need of new strategies as you simply do not have the time anymore.
Life can become very busy and overwhelming at times. During these times you usually feel like you have to do everything. That’s when you start pushing your slave training aside to make more room for all those things that have been stressing you. For example work, school, kids, repairs, etc. This is the perfect time to assign some tasks to your sub, so you can free up more of your time for training.
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Special Tricks For Controlling From Afar
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Some Dominants may find their jobs or other responsibilities take them physically away from their slaves – work assignments, work trips, etc. In these cases, you need to employ different strategies to continue the training without your being in the room with the slave. Thankfully, technology has made slave training easier than ever – especially over long distances. You can continue exercises and tasks you had for your slave in the past, but utilize a web cam to make sure they are doing as you requested. Or you can send digital photos to each other as a part of a training process. It might also be helpful to create some sort of email or text message schedule that will keep your slave on task, even when you’re not standing over them. This way, you can continue to check in to see how their training is progressing. Set up regular times to chat and if they are not adhered to, then punishments can begin.
Having your sub in a chastity belt while you are away is a great way and one of my personal favorite ways to keep that control while away. Plus its always nice to see a sub squirming in their chastity belt on a web cam.
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Talking With Your Slave About Changes
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Of course, before you begin any of these sorts of changes to your training routine, you will want to sit down with your slave to see what their impressions might be. Remember, the two of you are in this relationship and they need to be taken care of as well. Talk to the slave about what you are planning to do and how long you think the changes will need to be in place. If they agree, you’re ready to start a new form of training – a harder form in many respects. And if the slave isn’t willing to continue the training in the new way, it might be time to look for a new slave or it might be time to stop the training until it can resume normally again.
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Staying Focused During A Session
November 16, 2009
While your Dominant probably makes it look so easy, they’re depending on you to make each session productive and effective. Though you might feel you are completely under Their control, part of your job as your Dominant’s slave is to maintain your focus and your attention each and every minute of the scene. This isn’t always easy. With practice, you can become the sort of slave who is always ready for their Dominant’s next command. The sort of slave that makes their Dominant smile, albeit wickedly.
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Clearing Your Mind
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The best way to keep your mind ready for anything your Dominant might have planned for you is to clear your mind. No, this isn’t just a New Age concept. Clearing your mind is something that is crucial for a slave when they walk into the dungeon. You need to leave the rest of your life at the door when you walk up to your Dominant and get into the desired position. Everything that happened that day needs to be gone from your mind and everything that you might still need to do must be banished from your mind.
One way to do this is to write down every worry that you have on a piece of paper before you head into your session, leaving those thoughts for you to worry about later. Or you might want to learn to meditate as that helps you learn to quiet your mind. Close your eyes and try to push any thoughts out of your mind. It’s difficult at first, but once you practice a bit, you will begin to get better at it the more you try.
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Staying in the Moment
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Once you’re already in a session with your Dominant, you need to stay focused. This can be difficult for new slaves who are unaccustomed to so much happening at the same time. But when your Dominant wants you to count or to do something specific, you need to be ready and willing to do this. Here are some quick tips to staying in the moment:
> Keep your eyes where your Dominant tells you to – This will help you guide your attention to where your Dominant wants your focus to be.
> Think about what your senses are experiencing – Think about sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch. How are these senses being engaged?
> Count along with your Dominant – This might be something that you do anyways, but if you are not told to do so, then you might want to count in your head to help stay attentive.
> Breathe each time you feel something painful – This will prevent your body from becoming too excited by pain and distracted.
What you’re trying to do is to bring your brain into the session and into what you need to do at the time. This will help you be attentive to the needs of your Mistress, even when she does not tell you to do certain things.
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Preparing Ahead of Time
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Of course, it never hurts to prepare yourself for the session ahead of time in order to be the best slave for your Dominant. Before you go into each session, you will want to think about things you might have done wrong the last time and ways you can be a better slave. Or you might want to think about ways you want to please your Dominant. If you have been given homework or tasks, make sure these are done ahead of time and that you are ready to show your Dominant what you have learned on your own.
Being a focused slave is something that comes with time, practice, and effort. When you want to become a true slave, one who submits fully, your focus is just another gift you give to your Dominant.
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Master Bishop
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Slave Training On Twitter
November 6, 2009
It seems everybody has a twitter account, so I decided a while ago to create a twitter account for the BDSM Training Academy. If you have a twitter account follow along. That way you can stay up to date with all the latest training tips, advice and kinky ideas.
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Is Bondage Really Necessary
November 2, 2009
When you read about BDSM, it’s hard not to think about bondage, ropes, cuffs etc. But for many people who want to have a Master or a Mistress, or who want to have a slave, it becomes a concern. After all, is bondage really necessary in a BDSM relationship? While it’s true that the ‘B’ seems to indicate this to be the case, all relationships have different fetishes and flavors, so maybe yours doesn’t have to include ropes. Here’s what you might want to keep in mind.
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The Matter of Ropes
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Ropes are symbolic of more than just some sweaty fun. Bondage, to some people, is also a way to show that the things that bind us are the things that also free us. Since most people don’t think of BDSM as a philosophy of life, let’s explain this more thoroughly. Most people have shame around sex and around their sexual desires. When a person chooses to incorporate bondage into their lives, it seems that they are trying to take their sexual desires out of the shadows, expressing their desires more freely and openly. For some, the idea of bondage is a way to tell the rest of the world that they don’t care about the conventions of society – that they will do what they want to do because it feels good. By being bound in ropes, some people believe they are freeing themselves of the restrictive attitudes toward sex.
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Why ‘B’ is So Commonplace
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Bondage is also quite common because it’s something that anyone can do – with little cost or experience. A few ropes from the local hardware store are inexpensive and a little practice (Bondage Tutorial) can offer a wide variety of binding techniques. Bondage is also widely accepted as standard practice within the BDSM world, so it’s something that is just linked up with those who are in these power oriented relationships.
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Can You Train without Bondage?
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Let’s face it – bondage can make training easier. When a slave isn’t wriggling out of the way or simply not staying in the position you want them to be in, things are easier on the Master or Mistress. But while the ropes that bind are helpful, it seems that the slave’s training should be encouraging them to learn how to stay in a position because their mind is making that choice, rather than because the ropes aren’t allowing them to have any other choice. So yes, you can train without ropes or ties or any other bondage tool. However, starting out with bondage at the beginning can help the slave learn to trust a Master or Mistress more fully, thus allowing them to be ready for the day when bondage isn’t necessary.
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Controlling without Help
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But the truth is that a dominant can control a slave without the use of bondage, if they like. What needs to happen is that the Master or Mistress needs to show the slave that they are completely under their control. This can be achieved through verbal training and humiliation, through punishments, and through constant training and assessments. Bondage can help in the initial stages, of course, but the power of the Master or the Mistress should be the overall motivating factor for the slave’s behavior.
Control is something that is defined in numerous ways. Bondage is just one form of control. While some might say that yes, bondage is necessary, a lot of this answer will depend on the Master or the Mistress. What does control look like to you?
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For more bondage tips and techniques check out these ===> Rope Bondage Techniques
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