Too Tired to Play with Your Slave

March 29, 2010

Since many Dominants have to work in addition to training their slaves, it’s not surprising that you might be tired from time to time – and unwilling to deal with a cranky slave. Even though you might adore your slave and you understand the need for them to be trained consistently. When your energy is drained, it might seem easier to just go through the motions. But a slave can see that and they might not be happy with that arrangement either. Instead of just going through an old session plan, boring yourself and your slave, here are some ideas to handle a day when the Dominant would rather be in bed.

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Make Your Slave Pamper You
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The best idea when you are tired is to have your slave take care of you. This is a special treat for your slave and it will fill them with pride to know that you trust them to make you feel better. Have them draw you a bath and give you a massage. Their goal for this sort of session is to make their Mistress feel as though she is completely rejuvenated and refreshed. They should be given carte blanche to do what they think needs to be done in order to make you feel better. You may even want to tell them that they are being ‘graded’ on this session to see if they have been paying attention to what you have said you enjoy. While this will not be a sexual session or one in which you are barking orders, there is something even more sensual about a slave who is completely devoted to caring for their Dominant.

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Your Slave Can Give You a Show
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BDSM training is all about showing a slave how they are to act when they are in the dungeon. When you are feeling tired out, it’s time for your slave to show you what they have learned. Have your slave create the session themselves, showing you all that they have learned to do. While you may need to perform some of the tasks to help them illustrate their points, you should have your slave simply talk about all of their lessons, how they struggled, and what they have learned. The slave should also talk about their goals for the next sessions ahead and they should grade themselves on how they feel they are doing in terms of being slaves and in terms of being the right slave for you.

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Call Off the Session
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With all of the lessons you give to your slave about telling you when they are in true pain, your fatigue may be an opportunity for you to control your slave by taking care of your health. Maybe you just need the break from everything. Call off the session completely and let the slave deal with it how they will. You might tell them the reason or you might not. In not telling the slave the reason, they might come back to the next session, eager to make up for lost time. If you want to give the slave a reason, let them know that you are taking some time to dream up some horrible session ideas for them and you don’t need him in the room as a distraction.

When you are a Dominant, you are also human – though your slave doesn’t need to know this. Sometimes, you just need a break and there are many ways to handle this inevitable situation. By allowing your slave to take over or simply calling off the session altogether, you will be making a good decision for your training time – and the relationship will benefit as a result.

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Commanding Euphoria

March 10, 2010

Domination can take control of many different aspects of your life but My favorite way is through orgasm control. When you are performing tasks for your Dominant your mind can wander from time to time. By the time you have finished your task you can forget why you were doing it in the first place. There is no doubt why you are doing it or who has control when it comes to orgasm control.

While orgasm control is a very difficult and extremely lengthy process to teach, it is also the most rewarding experiences a submissive will ever experience. Only a very few dedicated submissives ever get to truly experience the pleasure found from this form of control.

What is Orgasm Control: It is a form of submissive training when a submissive freely gives up control of their own orgasms. This means when, where and how. A submissive is not allowed to touch themselves without permission and/or orgasm without permission. When this becomes much more fun for the Dominant is when after much time and intense training that a submissive finally is able to orgasm solely from their Dominant’s command. No stimulation or physical contact at all, just one single command for a submissive to orgasm.Orgasm Control proves how the mind is the biggest sex organ in the body.

Many women have never had an orgasm ever or they take a very long time to reach an orgasm. Since it’s so hard for a woman to orgasm people believe that orgasm control is just not possible or a myth the same way the G-spot was thought to be a myth.

Not only is it possible to make a submissive woman orgasm on command it is one of the most intense sexual experiences you will ever have. Listen to what sub samantha had to say about her experiences in the BDSM Training Academy’s Female Submissive Training.

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"Sex can be a very frustrating pastime, you read about all the amazing sex that characters have, you watch porn where women just keep on going and scream out in ecstasy and then you look at your own experiences where everything becomes far more prosaic. I always believed that there was more to sex than I had been led to believe by friends and family, but every stupid fumble in the dark just left me even more disheartened and disappointed. I also found that my body just shut down if I actually managed to achieve an orgasm, which isn’t the best thing to have happen if your partner still wants to carry on; it can make things very difficult.

Entering into training with Master Bishop I really hoped that he would be able to help me with understanding my body and to become a more fully rounded sexual being. I had spent some time with a Master a year or two before and knew that I enjoyed being a submissive but it had been a very low key relationship and I wanted to learn more. I knew there was a whole world of experiences that I was missing out on, could an online Master help me?

The training I receive from Master Bishop is beautifully organized and from the start he pushed me to explore my own body and its femininity. He showed me how to take better care of myself and gave me just the start I needed to begin a healthy eating and fitness plan. Somehow it was so much easier to stay on track knowing that Master Bishop had told me how to eat rather than trying to survive on my own willpower alone. It wasn’t long before a new healthier and happier body began to emerge from under the fat that had accumulated over the last few years.

As the training progressed Master Bishop began to take more control of my body and I found myself happy to give it up to him, hadn’t he already given me a slimmer figure, what else could he show me if I let him. The first time Master Bishop commanded me to come I felt as though everything suddenly made sense. I had been on my own for a while and had of course masturbated and brought myself to orgasm but controlled orgasms are so much more satisfying. Looking back I can see how important it was that I got used to obeying Master Bishop and ensuring that I only ever achieved an orgasm at his command. I could play with my pussy at his behest for as long as he desired and only when he commanded would my body explode into orgasm.

It became clear very quickly that it was far more fulfilling to orgasm at Master Bishop’s command than to give myself orgasms. Then there came the lesson when he modified his command, for weeks I had touched myself as he ordered and brought myself to a climax on his request, now just as I was on the brink of an orgasm, he ordered me to stop touching myself; I obeyed and then heard his command to come. My body responded even as my brain questioned whether it could, I couldn’t breathe and it was though something exploded in my head. This orgasm was unlike any other I had ever experienced, it came from deep within me and I could almost feel myself disappearing into it. My body kept responding to Master Bishop’s command, the orgasm rolled on for a few minutes with my whole body experiencing an ecstasy which had been totally unknown until that point. I didn’t want the orgasm to finish yet when it did and I began to catch my breath and become aware of my surroundings again, the next amazing thing happened, as I came down from the orgasm and my body relaxed feeling totally satisfied I knew that at the same time it hadn’t shut down, my body was still ready for sex. The gift was incredible, now if I ever found myself in the middle of a scenario with a Dom I would be able to continue to serve him, I was fast becoming a far better sub than I could ever have been before.

It was what I had hoped for at the beginning of the training, my body was being controlled by someone else and I was loving it. You spend so much time in your life stressing about how you look, how you respond to everyday situations, now all that has been taken away. Someone else cares about you; someone else tells you how to look after yourself, how to present yourself to the word and how to react. People start to notice too, I have received more compliments about my body, more comments on how happy and contented I seem, how graceful and feminine I am becoming than ever before in my life. If this is what giving up control of my body can give me then I gladly do so.

I can hear people wondering if what I have just described is actually possible, can a person come solely on command, with no stimulus. The stimulus is actually still there; my pussy is more alive than ever before, getting ready for my weekly lesson starts the process, then just hearing Master Bishop’s voice is enough to start my pussy becoming wet and ready for whatever he wishes me to do. I have become a far more sexual woman and my body is hungry for the gift of an orgasm from Master Bishop. Becoming so turned on, knowing that Master Bishop wants to have a sub ready for him means that it is only a very short step to that body responding exactly as he wants. It is also such an amazing pay off, I cannot begin to explain just how much more exciting the orgasms I have now are than in my life before Master Bishop. His training is making me a far more sensual, interesting and graceful woman and for that there are not enough words of thanks available.

Master Bishop, of course, didn’t stop at just giving me amazing orgasms he began to take me further, he showed me how my body would respond to his voice under different circumstances, how pleasure could be found in pain and restraint. I became used to having my body obey his command, the freedom of simply obeying and coming upon his command was so fulfilling for me. I had changed so much over the months I had spent on my training and I was still hungry for more.

Then during one lesson I came as he commanded but then he told me to come a second time and my body did so, I couldn’t believe it, never before had I ever managed multiple orgasms and here was my body coming and coming again and again, I was blown away. I wanted to run out into the street and tell the whole world what had just happened to me. I finished the lesson still reeling from the whole experience and so excited about what was happening to me. Me, the woman who had seemed to have given up on life and sex was becoming a truly sexual submissive woman brimming with excitement for life and all it could bring to her. I hadn’t actually realized just how lost I had become, oh I went through life and all its paces but nothing reached me and I was beginning to fade into the back ground of existence, which I assure you is not a nice place to be. Now I was taking more care of myself, walking taller and starting to take life by the scruff of the neck again and say to the world that life was good and exciting. Becoming a submissive had not caged me in, rather it had broken through walls that I had put up around myself and demanded that I started to become more aware of who I was and where I was going.

Did I see this coming when I signed up for the training with Mister Bishop? I thought I would listen to him for a few weeks, have a bit of fun and then get bored, which is pretty much what happens with most of the projects I start. Now, though I am into my fifth month of training and I am happier, healthier and more satisfied than I have been in a long time. I have had times where the training has been difficult and challenging, I would be a liar if I said it had all been plain sailing, but the level of support I have received from Master Bishop is wonderful. He understands that I am fallible and insecure and he lifts me up and helps me through the difficult times. Giving up control of my body to Master Bishop has to be the best thing I have ever done for myself and I can’t wait to see what he has in store for me in the future. I never thought that I would be truly happy as a submissive, Master Bishop has proved me wrong, my body and mind are stronger, clearer and more sexual than ever before in my life and long may it continue."

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Online Female Submissive Experiences

March 10, 2010

Here Are Just A Few Comments From Submissives That Have Experienced Master Bishop’s Online Female Submissive Training

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You Have Shown That You Know What This Trainee Needs Even Better Than She Does

Trainer,

This trainee is very grateful for all the time and effort You have put into her training. Before training, this trainee may have only thought about submission occasionally throughout her life, but now this trainee has come to learn how deeply she needs to be treated as the submissive that she is every day, all day. By helping this trainee to fully acknowledge her desires, this trainee can now experience the freedom which comes with expressing one of the most important parts of herself which has been begging for release for a very long time. For this, this trainee is eternally grateful.

This trainee really appreciates the required daily rituals which You have imposed since they help this trainee to keep her focus on You and her duty to be sexually eager to please You at all times. This trainee loves being reminded of You from the moment she wakes up to the time she goes to sleep each night. Even something as simple as eating brings happy thoughts of You to mind because of Your dietary rules. This trainee remains hot and wet all day with the anticipation of the possibility of being used at anytime for Your pleasure.

This trainee is very thankful that You require her to feel horny all day since this has brought out this trainee’s true nature. Being so wet and ready to serve You feels so good and natural for this trainee. Hiding underneath this trainee’s conservative exterior has been a very horny slut waiting to be released. Now that it has been released, this trainee is extremely thankful that You are available to direct and control that energy so that it does not become either misdirected or wasted. Although this trainee did have a hard time (and still struggles sometimes) with not being allowed to orgasm without permission, this trainee now appreciates that rule since she knows how much better her orgasms are when they come out of Your control. You have strengthened this trainee’s orgasms so much over the past few weeks that it almost feels as if this trainee never really had one before. Also, not being able to have orgasms whenever this trainee wants to increases this trainee’s awareness that Your sub body is for Your pleasure and giving pleasure to You is what arouses this trainee the most.

You have had a wonderful impact throughout all of my day-to-day activities. This trainee feels more happy and at ease throughout the day knowing that she has found the true purpose of her previously neglected inner feelings. This trainee has also noticed that she gets even more attention from men than she previously did wherever she goes. Whether that is because of the total happiness she projects or the sexuality which constantly oozes from Your sub body (or both), this trainee does not know. But, it is always a nice self-esteem boost even though this trainee knows that none of those men could ever give her anything close to all You have given even if it has just been through a computer. You understand so well what this trainee needs. In fact, You have shown that You know what this trainee needs even better than she does.

This trainee also truly appreciates Your willingness to listen to and give feedback on this trainee’s comments. It feels good to know that this trainee’s thoughts can be considered by You while at the same time You do not fall back on giving this trainee the discipline and control which she needs. This trainee appreciates knowing that You are available to correct her in case she strays from what You have decided is best for her. This trainee is very grateful for all You have done for her and hopes to repay all You have given her through pleasing You to the very best of her ability, whenever or however You decide.

Sincerely and Completely Yours,

trainee j

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I Am The Most Happy I Have Ever Been In My Life

i am the most happy i have ever been in my life.  i owe it to You and my friends that i have found that are like me.  i still can’t believe it!  i really thought everyone in this world was vanilla, and i was alone, and couldn’t tell anyone anything about what i get turned on thinking about.  Now i have actually done it, and thanks to my Master i found out that i really do like it, and i don’t have to hold back about telling him anything.  He thinks i am a great slave and You are enriching his life too, because i am always telling him about what i’ve been doing and learning from my BDSM e-course.  He says i… keep it interesting,lol  You do Trainer.  You influence people through training me.  i am a happier person, and it makes other people around me happy too.  You must be having a really wonderful life for helping people the way you do.  You are a very special person, and i am grateful to be Your trainee.  i am trusting You more and more.

Becoming a better slave is why i think so highly about you Trainer, and the BDSM Training Academy.   You have helped me so much.  It is very difficult to read and translate it into reality without a teacher.  You have helped me to accept my mindset of a slave/trainee.  You have taught me so much in the last 6 weeks of training, and even before that when i bought the Slave Training Manual on-line.   i was so confused about  all of the changing and not really knowing what to do or how to act for my Master.  i am just so grateful for You, for not rejecting me, for accepting me that i am very new, and i don’t always know what to do or how to act.  If it weren’t for You and the very kind people i’ve met in the lifestyle, i just don’t think i would find true happiness in my life.  All of my friends and family and my Master have been commenting on my new affect.  i am happy, i smile and have fun, more self confident.  Men go out of their way to say good morning to me, to get the door for me, it is really a different world i live in now.  i got a real deal on the training i am receiving, the help i get is priceless, and i think what i receive is the best bargain i’ve ever received.  i’ve got a whole new outlook on life, and i know i will not stagnate and stop living.  i am going to keep progressing toward the best i can be from here on out and that is a very good feeling.  i hope the same for anyone else that is starting to explore this lifestyle too.

trainee n

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Avoiding Legal Issues While Practicing BDSM

March 1, 2010

From the outside of BDSM, this sexual fetish or practice (depending on how you look at it) can look dangerous. In fact, to some who don’t know what BDSM really is, they think that this is completely illegal. But this is far from the case. A BDSM relationship is a relationship that is purely consensual in its practice and in its guidelines. But since many people are still unaware of how BDSM works, it can help to keep in mind the legal issues of what you do in the privacy of your home. When your BDSM comes out into the open, what do you need to know in order to stay out of jail?

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Is BDSM Legal?
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The practice of BDSM, when done in the privacy of your home, is legal so long as both of the adults are above the age of 18 (or the legal age where you live) and they are consenting adults (This might not be the case where you live, please check your local laws). This is something you need to keep in mind. Consent is given when both adults talk ahead of time about what they can expect from the session or the relationship and then they follow these guidelines.

Never exceed the limits of what you have agreed upon when you are with someone for the first time or that you do not know very well. In fact its better to do even less then what the both of you agreed upon.

Its when a Dominant decides to push someone they don’t know or barely know past their boundaries and what they both agreed upon that really lead to problems. When someone has been pushed beyond what they are comfortable with they can become very emotional and understandably so. How the Dominant saw the scene and how the submissive felt from the scene are two different things.

While the Dominant might have felt blindfolding the sub was only pushing them a little bit and really only adds to heighten their other senses. The sub could have felt disconnected from the world and frightened that this horrible experience was never going to end. With panic setting in on the sub, they might be too scared to call out their safe word and end the scene. The Dominant will continue playing thinking the sub is enjoying everything.

This is when the authorities can be called in. While the sub agreed to play with the Dominant, the Dominant did not play within what is agreed upon. For a submissive’s safety and a Dominant’s safety always play within the agreed upon guidelines. If you play beyond each other’s comfort zones, you can never take it back once that boundary has been crossed. If you play below each others limits not only will you both remain safe, but you always leave room to add more in the next time you play. A good way to think is always leave your play partner wanting more.

When you have been in a long term relationship with your partner and understand how they react to certain stimulus then you can begin to push their boundaries once they have agreed to let you do so. Remember BDSM play is all about Safe, Sane And Consensual.

Bringing your BDSM play out into public can also be a little dicey. For example, if you have a slave walking around naked in public, they can certainly get into trouble for that – whether they consented or not. In addition, any BDSM hitting or whipping in public may also cause trouble with the police. Nobody just walking by is going to know that you have both agreed to this type of play. All they see is one person hitting another person and most concerned citizens will call police to intervene.

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Putting Your BDSM in Writing
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You need to have a clear note of consent somewhere so that if the other person doesn’t like their experience that they don’t come back at you with legal recourse. That’s a rare situation, but if you’re playing with people you don’t know, it never hurts to be careful. You can never predict how someone else is going to react after an intense play session.

Having a contract in a long term BDSM relationship is a great idea. Not only will you both have a clear reference for what you will do and what you will not do, but you can show this to anyone who is concerned about your sex life. Sometimes bruises do show or that collar does draw attention. In those cases when a person might be tempted to call in the police, you can show that you both agreed to do the things that you do in the bedroom.

**Please note: A letter of consent is not a legal document, therefore is not a get out of jail free card. Just because a person has agreed to play with you, does not mean they agreed to everything you may have done. Or they may find the experience far more traumatic then they would have thought. This is why you should always be overly cautious when casually playing with someone or when playing with someone new (This means someone new to the lifestyle and someone you have never played with before). If you do plan to play casually or play with someone new, always stay on the gentle and light side of play.**

While in a monogamous long term relationship, there is less chance for miscommunication and misinterpretation of your actions. Also you can take your time building the trust with your partner and figuring out their views on the types of activities the both of you will be engaging in. This is the best way for you and your partner to remain on the safer side of the law.

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Handling People Who Don’t Understand
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That said, there will be some people who will never understand what people get out of BDSM. For the most part, those people will not ask you anything about your sex life, so they’re not going to cause any trouble. They might hint at things that you do, but since they’re going to be too embarrassed to say anything, they can’t cause much trouble. However, when you do encounter people who want to get you or your partner in trouble, it might be helpful to sit down with them and with your partner to talk about what you do. This might be an uncomfortable conversation and the other person may still not understand, but at least everything is on the same page. And if the cops are still called on you, then you can re-explain the situation to them. Police have seen everything and will probably leave you alone only they understand that it is consensual.

BDSM isn’t as scary as many people make it out to be. And even if it is, if someone doesn’t want to engage in it, it’s their prerogative.

***Please note: This article is not legal advice and is not meant to replace professional legal advice. It is important (and your responsibility) that you the reader understand the laws and regulations where you reside and abide by them.

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