How To Be A Dominatrix

April 19, 2010

More and more women these days want to become dominant in the relationship. The problem is while you might feel a strong urge to Dominate your partner you don’t know how to start. Some Dominant women believe that it should come naturally and that you will learn as you go. This is a big mistake.

Would you ever trust a surgeon who just learned on the job? Probably not. In fact you probably wouldn’t want to go near that surgeon when they have a knife in their hands. With no education they wouldn’t even understand basic anatomy or surgical cleansing standards. Yes experience is invaluable but every surgeon must learn important basics before they can pick up that knife. Nobody trusts a surgeon who has not received proper education.

The same goes for becoming a Dominatrix. So many women are eager to pick up a flogger and begin working away on some poor soul. Sure the Dominatrix get to learn as they go but the submissive experiencing all the mistakes gets to suffer and sometimes the mistakes are irreversible.

You might have seen a show called “1000 ways to die” in which true stories showcase all the different ways a human can die. One episode showed a Dominatrix dealing with a submissive for the first time. The submissive suffered from a serious latex allergy which even the sub did not know about. The Dominatrix placed this sub in a full body latex outfit. She then gagged him and placed a latex hood over his face.

With such an extreme allergic reaction to latex and covered from head to toe in this latex suit it did not take long for his body to begin to react. The pain he was in must have been excruciating. He begged and pleaded as best he could but since he was tied down and gagged there was no way for him to communicate.

She assumed that all his gagging, begging and whining was just him enjoying the session. After a short time he just stopped moving and died. Sadly a tragic end to something that was easily preventable. If this Dominatrix would have taken the time to receive even a small amount of education she would have known how to avoid this terrible mistake. A mistake that cost someone their life.

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What Mistakes Did She Make
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>> They did not have a clear defined safeword to end the session when it got out of hand for him.

>> The safeword didn’t really matter because he had no way of calling it out in the first place. Never ever gag or hood someone you have never played with before. If the submissive had not been gagged or hooded he would have been able to call out his safeword and explained clearly to the Dominatrix that he was having an allergic reaction or that something was extremely wrong. They could have taken him out of the suit and rushed him to the hospital immediately. Instead she just kept playing thinking everything was fine and this was exactly what he wanted.

>> Not once did she ever stop to check in with her sub to make sure everything was ok. As the Dominant you must look out for you and your submissive’s safety and well being. Both mentally, emotionally and physically.

These are just a few of the mistakes she made. Being a Dominatrix is an important job and not one to be taken lightly. While the story above is an extreme case, it shows how fragile human life really is and how just a little bit of education can go a long way. Many BDSM activities are dangerous, injuries do happen and even deaths have occurred. It is important for you as the Dominant partner to educate yourself and learn how to prevent this from ever happening to you or your submissive. Remember the reason you wanted to take charge of the bedroom was for fun, but first learn how to do it properly. This way you can enjoy the fun knowing how to keep the both of you safe.

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Becoming a Graceful Slave

April 7, 2010

Gracefulness is one thing that comes to mind when watching a well-trained slave. They move easily from one position to the next and they seem to always be aware, not only of themselves, but also of the needs of their Master. So are some slaves just inherently better than others? Not exactly. Some slaves are simply working harder at becoming graceful than others. By practicing how to move, thinking about their actions, debating how to speak, and reviewing their behaviors later, these slaves are becoming the kinds of slaves that you long to be. Of course, taking a lesson from other slaves is never a bad idea. After all, this will only help you when you serve your Master.

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Watching How You Move
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The way you move seems to be the thing most people link to grace and to gracefulness. But the way you move isn’t necessarily grace – it’s how you choose to move that matters. To move with grace, you will want to look at each movement as being connected. For example, when you lift something from the floor, you will slowly move to get it and then slowly move up. Refraining from jerky movements will allow you to look graceful, even during awkward movements. Be deliberate in the way that you move from one place to another, focusing on smooth movements of your arms and legs. This is a great time to begin to think about manners and about what is considered appropriate as well. For example, you should always keep your legs crossed demurely when sitting or when getting out of a car.

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Thinking About Your Actions
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Just taking the time to think about your actions and decisions will encourage you to be a more graceful slave. Slow your mind after your Master has asked you something, and then think about what you need to do. While there will be times when your Master might want an immediate response, most of often this is not the case. You will have a few moments to consider what you need to do and how you will want to do it. And the more you practice this deliberate thought, the more quickly deliberate actions will follow.

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Taking Time to Speak
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When asked a question, you should take a few moments to consider your response. This will allow you to make the best response possible, while also helping you to understand the question fully. When you are speaking, take your time to respond, speak slowly and think about the word choices you are making. While this might seem awkward at first, the more this is practiced, the easier it becomes. You don’t want to rush answers as they will not be carefully considered – and they will not be graceful.

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Reviewing Your Efforts Later
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Later after your training sessions, consider your actions and how you could have done them better. This will allow you to make notes as to what you want to do differently the next time, while also helping you to see how well you have already done. If there are any issues that you think you need more training with, ask your Master for guidance. Your Master will appreciate the time you are taking outside of your sessions to become a better servant and submissive.

Grace does not come naturally for everyone. But that does not mean that grace can not be a goal you set for yourself within your Master and slave relationships. By simply learning to be deliberate, you can begin to learn how to be gracious, elegant, and a slave worth showing off.

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