How to Serve Master at the End of His Long Day
September 15, 2010
Being a Master is hard work, but so might be the work he does outside of the dungeon. As the slave, it’s your duty to make sure your Master is always feeling worshiped and relaxed, even when his fatigue has nothing to do with your training. At the end of a long day, a Master wants to feel as though his slave is willing to please him in any way possible. Keeping his needs in mind will help you to not only be the best slave possible, but also to assure your Master you are submitting to him and to all of his needs – no matter what they might be.
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What Does Master Want from You?
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Many Masters have a clear idea as to what they want from their slaves when they walk in the door. You might, for example, have to present yourself in a certain position upon his arrival. But when your Master hasn’t been clear about what they expect from you, you might want to spend a little time talking with your Master about how you can best help him. Talk about the fact that you want to help him relax at the end of a long day and then ask if there is anything he might like you to do. If your Master hasn’t already thought of this, they might have to stop to consider what the perfect coming home task list might look like. But once you have this list in your hand, you will simply have to follow these guidelines.
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Serving Master When You Don’t Want To
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But the problem most slaves have in serving their Masters is a lack of motivation. Many times, the slave themselves might be tired and not in the mood to serve anyone else. So how does a slave persevere through these rough patches? First of all, it can help the slave to have a list of reasons why they do the things they do for their Master. Reading this list before you do anything for your Master will allow you to recall why you chose to be his slave in the first place. You should also remind yourself of all of the benefits of the relationship: what you’ve learned, what your Master provides to you, etc. And sometimes, none of the positive self talk will work for you, so you will simply need to put a smile on your face and be the slave you’ve promised to be.
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Special Ways to Please Your Master
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Being ready at the door with all your Master’s needs is the key to impressing him each and every day. Firstly, you need to make sure to give yourself plenty of time to prepare for his arrival and then you need to make sure you are following any specific instructions he has given you. Outside of the things you MUST do, you might also want to add in some special touches. If you are tasked with rubbing his feet, make sure you always have his favorite lotion or oil on hand at all times. You might also want to clean up the home ahead of time to insure he is coming back to as peaceful a setting as possible. Some slaves also like to cook a small snack for their Masters upon their arrival, just in case they’re hungry – or they might have a beverage ready for their Master as well.
At the end of a long day, a Master just wants to be pampered and reminded that he is in charge of a person who is completely devoted to him. Taking the time to care of your Master assures him of your position and of his as well.
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Essential Questions for a Slave Interview
September 14, 2010
The slave interview: a time when slave relationships are begun or ended just as quickly. While some Masters and Mistresses would rather choose a person they’ve met through friends or through BDSM parties and events, deciding to see if they’re a good fit as the training continues, a long term and serious slave and Owner relationship begins with a serious interview. Just as with any job, a Master or a Mistress wants to know if the slave is up to the task and whether they will be a good fit for the intentions of the training, the kink of the Owner, and the overall idea of the slave training as the Master or Mistress defines it. While there are other questions a prospective Owner might like to ask, these are the three essential questions the slave must answer during an interview.
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Why Do You Want to Be a Slave vs. a Traditional Partner?
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If the slave hasn’t thought about why they want to be a slave, chances are good that they aren’t really sure what this means. Many would-be slaves think that being a slave means getting pleasured over and over again, with feeble cries of protest from time to time. This is not necessarily the relationship a slave should expect. What they can expect from most Masters and Mistresses are multiple opportunities to learn and to move past edges they thought they had already overcome. The slave will learn how to behave around the Master or Mistress as well as how to behave in public. The slave must also be ready to receive punishments for not doing well in a session and to receive additional training when it might not be convenient for them. It’s all a part of being a slave.
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Do You Have Experience? Willingness to Learn?
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Slaves who have experience being slaves are generally going to be more attractive to a Master or Mistress. Instead of having to direct a slave on how the process works, experience can do this for the slave. This saves the Master and Mistress time and effort. That said, every slave needs to start somewhere, so it might also be a good idea to choose a slave who is eager to learn how to fulfill their role. Though they might not know everything there is to know, this is also good practice for a Master or Mistress who wants to refine their training skills. Working with a new person helps the Owner to begin to see how their own training needs to improve.
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Can You Listen and Follow Directions?
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A slave needs to be willing to listen and to follow directions. Within a slave interview, a Master or Mistress can test this quality out, asking the slave to prepare something for the interview, wear something specific, etc. If a slave is not able or is not willing to be told what to do, chances are likely they aren’t going to be very good in the slave training environment. They will likely cause more problems than a Master or Mistress might like. At the same time, an interview is only one snapshot of what a slave might be like. So, if the slave has issues following directions during this session, it might just be nerves. A Master or Mistress will need to use their best judgment.
The slave interview is often skipped in favor of getting into the dungeon for the fun stuff. But when the Master or Mistress truly wants to dominate another, they need to know who this person is before they make the decision to train them.
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BDSM Mummification Ideas
September 1, 2010
Restriction is something that most slaves crave. They want to be bundled up as tightly as possible so that they are completely helpless, completely subdued. Many a slave has tried to mummify themselves when they were alone, longing for complete encasement, but never able to find it in a safe way. Masters and Mistresses can use the concept of mummification to help their slaves finally experience the totality of slavery.
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Why Wrap Up a Slave
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Slaves want to be subdued. They want to be unable to move any single part of their body so they may be used and abused however their Dominant sees fit. For some slaves, just being wrapped up is enough to create sub space, and the Mistress can simply watch them or the Master can simply talk to them and they will feel complete. Some slaves also need to be completely wrapped up in order to be able to focus on their Dominant. Some slaves require complete sensory deprivation in order to break down their stronger wills and to give themselves over to the Mistress or Master. And finally, mummification works in the beginning of a slave and Dominant relationship to show that the Dominant can be trusted and that they truly will have complete and total control over their slave.
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Cheap Mummy Materials
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The good news is that mummifying a person is much easier than mummification in its traditional sense. No removing organs, okay? What you will need to do is to have the slave stand up when they are being mummified as they need to give access to all sides of the body. A Master or Mistress could even start by binding the hands and the feet to the sides of the body to further control movement. Then, the Dominant can use plastic wrap, bondage tape, or large pieces of cloth, starting at the feet. The material is wrapped around the body, again and again, in layers, to further pull the slave’s body together in a compacted form. The wrapping should go only up to the neck as the slave’s mouth and nose need to be available for breathing. The head can be wrapped if these places are still free. Never cover a persons airway.
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BDSM Lessons to Teach
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The silence which occurs once the slave is in a mummy wrap is exquisite. The slave will not be able to move at all, so they are completely at the whim of the Dominant.
Lessons:
1) A Dominant may choose to use a vibrator or other form of stimulation to see if their slave can withhold orgasm when they can not move.
2)A Dominant might also want to gag and blindfold the slave to see if they can trust the Dominant to keep them safe.
3) The Dominant can pretend to leave the room and simply watch the slave to see if they are able to keep their mind calm and collected.
4) With certain mummification materials, the Dominant can also cut holes for access and have some fun with various orifices.
5) A slave who is mummified might also be in the perfect position to be questioned about commands and other memorization tasks to see if they’ve been learning what their Dominant has been trying to teach.
Mummification is not something to do all the time as it is a time-consuming process and can lose its impact if the slave is not learning something during their encasement. But when used for special occasions, mummification is a beautiful way to adorn a slave and to restrict them as well as to give a Dominant free reign over the slave’s body for a session.
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