Office Role Play Scene

October 25, 2010

Sometimes, a little role playing can help to make a BDSM scene not only hotter than it might have been before, but also a bit more fun for everyone involved. It’s just fun to pretend you’re someone else and for the slave or the Master or Mistress, sometimes getting into a role can help to enhance the overall training experience. In the office scene, you can easily create the roles of the ‘bad’ worker and the ‘bad’ boss. The boss is the one who has all of these rules for the worker to follow, but the worker may not be competent, which then causes the boss to have to take matters into their own hands. The slave can then be surprised that the boss is doing what they do, but, fearing for their job, they submit anyway in order to keep from getting fired.

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The Right Environment
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While you might not want to change the entire dungeon into an office, which might be punishment enough, you will want to use a space which is going to conjure up the feeling of being at work. Using the home office, for example, is going to be the best way to ensure you are creating the right mood. You can also set up a small table and a chair to create the attitude of a desk where the bad employee can be punished right where they work. Or the ‘boss’ might want to take the employee home with them after they have found out they have done something wrong at work, helping you to transition to a bedroom without too many holes in the story of the scene. No matter what, the bad worker can be punished or pleased as the boss decides is necessary.

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Choosing the Outfits
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Having clothing from an office setting is really going to make the scene more believable and fun to do. You might want to wear an office outfit of a suit or a skirt set to help create the right mood. These clothes don’t have to be perfect in appearance and they can even come from a thrift store to save money. But wearing something that conjures up the idea of a boss and a worker will help the scene. The worker might want to wear something completely inappropriate for the office, which is what sets the boss off. Or the boss can wear something completely inappropriate and come on to the worker when they are walking up to their desk.

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What to Do in the Scene
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You’ve already gotten some scene ideas, but here are a few others which can help to turn a BDSM office scene into a hot session:

* The boss finds out the worker has been stealing from the company, but promises not to say anything if the worker submits to their every desire.

* The worker finds out the boss is stealing money, and turns them into a slave of their own.

* The boss punishes the worker in front of the entire staff for not doing a report correctly.

* The worker is tied to their chair or their desk in order to make sure they fulfill their hours for the week since they skipped out at lunch all week.

* The boss decides to hire a worker, but only after a series of humiliating tests.

* The new worker is tricked into the office after hours and has to submit to the boss in order to keep their job.

* The worker is told they need to test out the company’s BDSM products in order to make sure they are safe to sell.

You get the idea. There are plenty of ways you can add BDSM touches to an office scene. And the more creative you get, the more exciting the scene will become.

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Creating BDSM Tension

October 13, 2010

When you’re having sex with another person, all of the right moves do not necessarily add up to a good time. This is especially the case with BDSM. If you already know what’s going to happen or you simply don’t feel like things are exciting, you’re going to have troubles enjoying your time with your partner. In order to make your sexual escapade a bit more exciting, you will want to spend time building the tension in the room. When you do this, you will ensure your partner is going to be panting at the thought of the final finish, even if it seems like it will never come (pun intended).

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Keep It Fresh
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Before you even head to the bedroom or the dungeon, you need to keep a few things in mind. First things first, the sexual tension in any relationship will die when you aren’t trying to keep things fresh. If you’re not taking the time to think about new scenes and new techniques, your partner is going to be sighing each time you begin to meet in your preferred location. They’re going to know what you’re going to do, how they need to react, etc. Instead, take some time to learn new tricks and new ideas for scenes. Keep a bowl of scene ideas and fish one idea out when you want to create some sexual tension. The sub isn’t going to know what’s about to happen and that edge of nervousness is always hot.

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Slow It Down
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In addition, another tension killer is speed. Some couples just want to get to the good part, and they forget the steps that lead to that good part are just as amazing. Instead of simply trying to finish as quickly as possible, try to take your time with a slave, if you’re a Dominant, for example. Tie them up and leave them there for a while, doing something every now and again to remind them that they are at your mercy. Or as a slave, you might want to try to do things more slowly than you normally would, slightly taunting your Master or Mistress, if that’s within your ability to do. Either way, make sure that you take your time in the dungeon or the bedroom. When you speed things up to the end, you are only creating skipped erogenous zones and possibly a feeling of dissatisfaction for one of you.

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Tease and Taunt
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A little teasing and taunting never hurt anyone. Try to find ways you can tease your partner and make them wait just a little bit longer to have the sexual satisfaction they expect. This does go hand in hand with slowing things down, but you can also taunt by touching places you know the other person wants touched. Or you might want to bring your partner to the brink of orgasm, only to let the feeling dissolve before it reaches the pinnacle. Doing this again and again makes for a hot night that will not be easily forgotten. You can also tease and taunt by saying that you’re going to do one thing and then do another thing. Or you can just say that you’re going to do something and then not do it until the very end of the scene when the other person has given up.

Choosing to build the sexual tension is a good idea in any relationship, but in BDSM, it can help you to have a night of power struggles that ends up with an amazing orgasm for the both of you – assuming the slave is allowed, of course.

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Want More In Your Slave Training

October 5, 2010

i have a question to ask i have a master who i have known for two years and over these two years he has been training me very slowly as he works all the time this is fine as i know i have to be patient but things have stayed at the same stages of training for the past six months with me not progressing very much i have been doing the daily tasks he asks of me and when i do get to see him he trains me a bit more but not as much as i want and he says he wants to train me more as well. i also find myself wanting more from the relationship and not sure whether he does, which has lead me to question whether i am a worthy and good sub as my training hasn’t progressed much and also i have these strong feelings for him. my question is how do i bring up the fact that i want to be trained more and see him more without disappointing him because i’ve asked him to spend more time with me than work.
 
sub a.l. london uk

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A Slave Who Wants More?

If you’re in a situation as a slave where you feel like things aren’t progressing, it’s time to figure out why. Your Master isn’t a mind reader and while he might seem like he can tell what you need, he’s also human. It’s very common for slaves to begin to feel bored in their positions, but instead of simply feeling these feelings and keeping them inside, you need to make sure you are doing all that you can in your relationship so that you can be the best slave possible as well as the best trained slave possible.

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What are Your Expectations?
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A slave and Master relationship begins with the use of a contract as well as a training schedule. If you have neither of these, how can you ever begin to know if you are being trained well? Creating a clear contract and training schedule is something you and your Master should sit down and do immediately.

If you already have these documents in place, you need to stop to think about whether you are following what you have in place. It might be that you have already done everything that your contract says or that you haven’t included the details about what you really want from your partner. It’s a good idea to really stop and think about what your contract says you should expect. If the contract is being followed, it’s time to think about a new contract to include the new things you want from each other. You grow and develop as a person, a relationship grows and develops, therefore a contract should grow and develop along with you.

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Are You Really Doing Your Best?
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As a slave, you need to question yourself before you question your Master. Stop and think about whether you are truly doing your best when you are following his commands. If you are not giving 110%, then he might continue to put you through the same lessons until he is satisfied with your performance. At the same time, if you are truly doing as best you can, then it’s time to ask your Master how you can improve since you aren’t progressing to another level of training. He might be able to tell you that you need to do additional things and if he doesn’t have any improvements to suggest, he might begin to realize that he needs to step up his training more.

At the same time, if your Master does work a lot, then you need to ask yourself if you are making his life easier. A tired, stressed and overworked Dominant can become overwhelmed with life, having to think up new ideas for training can become too much sometimes. As a submissive are you making his life easier so he has the extra time to focus on your training? Or are you just waiting around for him to train you?

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What is ‘More’?
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Speaking of ‘more,’ how exactly do you define this as a slave? If you find yourself in the position of wanting more from your Master, you need to be ready to define what this is. You should schedule a time to sit down with your Master to clearly outline what is working for you and what is not working for you. In doing so, you will be able to create a new training plan that will help you both meet your needs. Having a vague definition of ‘more’ is not going to help your Master understand your desires. Do you want more punishment? Less? Do you want more menial tasks? More humiliation? Be clear about what you want and then you will find out if your Master is able to provide this. Or not.

It’s easy to think that the Master is the one with all of the solutions, but if there isn’t clear communication, there can be no change. Communication in a Dom/sub relationship is essential! A Master can not read minds and they can not simply know what you want by looking at you. As your relationship develops and you begin to get to know each other better, you might be able to know each other’s need and desires, but until you talk, it will be a mystery. Remember you may be the submissive in the relationship, but you still have a voice. Going into request position and asking to speak with your Dominant is a great way to start a conversation about making changes.

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New Slave? New Rules?

October 2, 2010

If you’re taking on a new slave, you might have a number of reasons for doing so. And even if you think the new slave is going to fulfill a purpose that the other did not, you need to consider your own training methods before you invite this slave into your life. While you might think that your own methods of slave training worked just fine, you might also be questioning whether you should change these methods since the last slave didn’t work out, for whatever reason. Right now, you should be thinking about whether you need new rules when you take on a new slave.

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Sticking to the Old Rules
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The case for sticking to the old rules is a strong one: it’s just easier to remember things you’ve done in the past. From this angle, you will also be able to see whether the rules you have are going to work for this new slave – and whether they need to change altogether. Though it may seem like rules could apply to anyone, you might be having troubles teaching these rules to your slave, which then will cause you to have troubles as a Master. At this point, if you decide to use the old rules and the old training ideas, you might want to find new ways of enforcing the rules so that your new slave will allow these rules to stick. Take some time to write down all of the rules you want your slave to follow and then make sure you have a clear set of training guidelines to use in order to teach and to enforce these rules.

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Adding New Rules
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At the same time, when you are releasing one slave, you might find that taking on new rules is the best way to start fresh. Many Dominants, and you might be one, find that starting completely from scratch not only helps them to build a better slave relationship, but it can also help them to refine their training skills. You don’t want to get stuck in a rut, after all. What you do want to do is to make sure that you are adding rules which are meant for a particular purpose. When you do this, you will allow yourself the opportunity to become more refined in your training as a Master/Mistress, while also helping to create a new slave experience for your slave.

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Training Yourself as Well as Your Slave
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The main argument against adding new rules to your slave training is that there will be a period of adjustment for you as the Dom/me. Not only are you teaching a new slave new rules, but you are also teaching yourself these rules. Though the rules might be necessary, remembering them may not come easy to you. You might find that your slave is able to pick up the rules more quickly than you are – which is not quite what you want when you are the one who’s supposed to be in charge. Instead, it might be a good idea to find ways to train yourself ahead of time when you are looking at training a new slave. Quiz yourself on the new rules so that you know them better than your slave. Or break down the training into smaller segments so that you can keep up with the new skills the slave needs to learn and so that you can appear to be in control at all times.

When you have a new slave, you will get a new opportunity to show your Dominant power. But when you add someone new to your slave training, you might also want to add some new rules to watch a new relationship emerge.

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