Release Of The 6th Edition BDSM Slave Training Guide

May 27, 2011

As always W/we at the BDSM Training Academy are constantly looking to improve upon everything that W/we do. W/we are strong believers in the fact that nothing is ever perfect (no matter how hard W/we try) and that there will always be more to learn. This is why W/we continue to add more and more information to the BDSM Slave Training Guide, because W/we believe this guide is never finished. It is a constant work in progress, ever growing and expanding.

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Prepare Your Nipples for Breast Scenes

May 26, 2011

If your Master is interested in making your breasts a part of every scene you do together, you need to make sure that you are prepared. While you might not be able to prepare for everything in the bedroom, a slave’s job is to be as graceful as possible and screaming like a banshee does not count. You can do a few things to prepare your nipples for even the most intense of breast scenes. Though you might still scream, at least you will suffer the pain as gracefully as you can.

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Know Your Nipple Sensitivity
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First things first, find out just how sensitive your nipples are. If you don’t know how sensitive your nipples actually are, you might have responded in past scenes, not because of pain, but because of surprise. One way to find out how sensitive your nipples are is to pinch them and twist them. Find out if you shriek in pain when you do this to yourself or if you think it’s your Master’s touch that is causing you to hurt more than you think you should (because he surprised you with his touch).

If you’ve had painful scenes in the past, you might want to remember this when you go into your next scene and prepare with the steps from the following sections.

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Try Out Clips and Clamps
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Once you’ve determined whether your nipples are sensitive, you need to prepare them for the next scene by applying the same sorts of devious devices that your Master might also use. Some cheap ones to use are clothespins and clamps. You can also use binder clips from your office. Try out a few of these pieces to see how they impact your breast pain. Remember, your goal is to learn how to suffer the pain, so you will still feel pain. This is a good thing. You need to let your nipples hurt as much as you can stand, pull off the clips, and then try again.

The more you do this, the more you will be able to see how much pain you can stand. Again and again, continue to do this until you can’t stand anymore. Then do it again. Use a vibrator or masturbate with your hand at the same time as this makes the nipples swell and it will cause you to test yourself even harder. Continue to practice until you can stand the pain or you begin to at least become accustomed to it.

**It is always best to practice this exercise when you have a number of days away from your Master. You will notice that after practicing on your own nipples that they will be sore to the touch for a few days. If this is the case you won’t be able to play with your Master, so make sure you have some rest time for your nipples to stop hurting before you play with your Master again.

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Learn to Breathe Through Pain
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No matter how sensitive you are to pain, especially on your nipples, make sure that you learn how to breathe through the pain. When your body tenses up, it’s because you’re not getting enough oxygen. You should practice breathing through the pain when you try out the clamps and clips on your nipples. The more practice you have, the more it will help you feel ready for your next scene. Even when you’re not in pain, practice taking long and slow breaths to help you move through any sensations you might be having. This will ensure that when you’re in the middle of an intense scene that you are ready for anything.

The more you practice, the more prepared you will be. This is going to help you as a slave and it will allow you to create a more elegant scene. While you can’t prepare for everything, if you know that your breasts are too sensitive, then it might be a good idea to try to serve your Master before you are even in the scene. He will love that you have taken the initiative.

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Holding Yourself Off For Your Mistress

May 25, 2011

Your Mistress is in control of your penis – whether you like it or not. And you know you like it, so don’t complain too much. But as your training as a slave progresses, you will want to make sure you are learning how to control your erections whenever your Mistress wants you to control them, which may be quite often. Though the sight of your Mistress may make you hard, it’s up to you to learn how to keep your penis doing what it’s supposed to be doing – unless your Mistress says you can do something else. Yes, you can hold off your erections, even when you think you have no other reaction but to get hard. Here’s what you need to know.

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Distraction is the Key to Control
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The joke for some men is that in order to keep from getting hard, they need to focus on the least sexy thing that they can. But while this works for men who might be in other relationships or in public, the truth is that when you’re with your Mistress, she might not want you to become distracted during a session. Your Mistress still wants your full attention, but you still might have to control your erections. What do you do then? In those sorts of situations, you will need to find new ways of distracting yourself. You will want to focus on other sensations you are feeling – i.e. pain. This will help you to attempt to divert the blood flow to your penis to other areas of your body. Try to find other things in the session to focus on: the voice of your Mistress, the sound of a crop, the pain you feel, etc. Shifting your mind away from your penis is going to help you begin to focus less on your sexual arousal.

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Breathe and Breathe Some More
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While you’re not going to stop breathing in your session, some men find that they are breathing more shallowly as they become more aroused. This is fine if you want to build up sexual energy, but when you want to hold off on having an erection, you need to think about your breathing differently. You will want to breathe as deeply as you can when you’re in your session, helping the energy of your body stay calmer and thus you will not have as much of a tendency to get an erection. When you feel your sexual energy building, you will want to breathe in deeply and then breathe out slowly. It seems so simple, but it works wonders to keep your blood flow slow and steady, which keeps you from getting too excited.

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Practicing on Your Own
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Of course, if you want to please your Mistress all the more, it might help for you to try to control your erections on your own (assuming you are allowed to do this sort of work on your own). Try arousing yourself and then distracting yourself or breathing deeply to see if you can keep an erection from building up. Sure, you might have a number of troubles in the beginning, but you will certainly progress quickly the more you practice. The more you teach your body not to respond to the normal cues for sexual arousal, the easier it will become.

The truth is that your penis and its actions are completely within your control to, well, control. And while it might seem as though this organ is a completely independent entity, this is far from the case. With some practice, you and your Mistress can enjoy erections when they are called for – no more and no less.

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Pushing Boundaries with Your Sub

May 22, 2011

A Dominant/slave relationship isn’t something that can be described as static. While your partner may not change for years at a time, that doesn’t mean the level of your relationship has to stay the same. In fact, as you and your slave work together, it’s a good idea to push each other’s boundaries to see just how deep you can take the relationship and the power structure. As a Dominant, you want to spend some time working on pushing the boundaries of your slave in order to ensure they are continuously learning and growing in their role.

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What are the Boundaries in Your Relationship?
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Before you can begin pushing your slave, you need to sit down with them and talk about what the contract between you already states. This will help you both to see what you think are the boundaries, whether they need to be changed, etc. Ideally, your slave should create a list of things they want, a list of things they never want, and a list of things they eventually want to try. The things they eventually want to try is the list that will help you see what boundaries you want to push. Since the slave is not necessarily comfortable with these items right now, you will be pushing their edges and making them grow in their role as a slave. Using other commands you might use for other tasks, you can see how they perform when they aren’t sure what’s going to happen next.

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Signs It’s Time to Push
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If you haven’t had the conversation about pushing the slave’s boundaries, you might notice that things need to change from the way they act. For example, you might begin to see these signs:

* They seem bored – If your slave begins to look bored during your sessions together, it’s time to change things up. You want your slave to be focused on you, not on the clock on the wall or their fingernails as you paddle them.

* Their responses are lifeless – When you begin to notice that your slave isn’t as enthusiastic or as energetic as they once were, it’s time to change things up. They need to be pushed a bit more to get that previous response.

* They move into position before you ask them to – You might be becoming too predictable if your slave begins to move into positions before you even ask them to. Now, this might also be the result of very good training, so you will need to differentiate between the two.

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A New System of Dominance
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Pushing boundaries can lead to a completely new system of dominance as well. For example, instead of being the domineering Dominant that barks orders, you might want to try being calmer and just more steady in the way you deliver tasks to your slave. While this might not seem like a way to push someone’s boundaries, if you change the way you act with your slave, they will not necessarily know what you are up to – which can make them more on edge than they have been in a while.

Or you might simply want to change the way you interact with your slave in a scene. You might ask for your slave’s trust as you push boundaries as you see fit, allowing them the chance to tell you to slow down or to stop if things get out of hand.

You want to push the boundaries of your slave because that’s the best way to see just how hard they can work and how much they can learn. No one wants to learn the same things again and again, so you need to make sure there’s always something new around the corner…and in the dungeon.

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How To Become A Mistress

May 20, 2011

I am in a relationship with a man who is very much into S & M. He is always looking at Mistresses via the web and has been trained previously. I have trained him occasionally however usually after alcohol. He loves Mistresses with big breast which I have the complete opposite and I would like to know a few tips on how I can get him to do what I want and take me seriously. I did start working with a dominatrix last year and learnt a few things which I enjoyed but I can’t seen to get my boyfriend where I want him. Also he never wants straight sex which I am trying to get used to. Are these common problems?

Any information you can give shall be greatly received.

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Become a Mistress 101
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Your partner wants you to dominate them, but what do you do when he wants you to be his Mistress in the bedroom all the time? For some women, being domineering isn’t a role they want to take on, but for others, the surge of power they feel is pretty intoxicating. By learning a few things about dominating your man, you can begin to make all of his sexual fantasies come true and you might just learn to love the dominatrix role as well.

First things first, it is never a good idea to mix alcohol and/or drugs with any type of BDSM play. It lowers inhibitions and reduces reaction time, which can only lead to disaster.

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Are You the Dominant Type?
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You need to stop right now and think about whether you are willing to take on the Mistress role all of the time or if you are even comfortable with the idea without the use of alcohol. If you have a partner who only wants you to dominate them and not have any sort of vanilla sex, it’s time for a chat. You need to talk to each other about both of your needs and learn what each individual would like in the relationship. Try talking about what you both will have to do to change your sex life and what you can both do to come to an understanding. Though you might not mind the change in the roles, you need to be comfortable with what you’re doing or else neither of you is going to have fun. This has to be a decision you can both agree with.

Remember there are two people in this relationship, so he shouldn’t get his way all the time. Then again that is the beauty of being a Dominatrix because you can have whatever you want and he will comply.

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Trying on the Leather Boots
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A good idea for you is to try on the role of being a dominatrix. This doesn’t just have to be sexual. Do you like getting massages? Not a problem, ask for one and he shall obey. Need a manicure or pedicure, while you relax and watch one of your favorite shows, I’m sure your servant won’t mind obliging. How about a fresh glass of lemonade being made for you when you walk through the door after a hard day at work. Let him know that he needs to make you happy to earn the right to be Dominated in the bedroom. You might find that he responds so strongly to pleasing you that you can’t wait to get into the bedroom to give him what he has earned.

While he is trying to please you, ask him what kinds of things he would enjoy you doing to him inside the bedroom. It can help to begin with some sort of list of things he wants you to do to him. This way, you will know exactly what he wants and what he doesn’t want. You can then try these things out on him, slowly. Never do too much at one time.

What does this mean? You need to slowly break down your partner in order to make him feel as though you are the one who is in charge. You will do this by having him always do certain things when you are together. For example, he might have to always call you Mistress when you are together and ask for your permission to do anything. Whenever he does not remember to do so, that’s when you either punish him or you stop the session. This sort of control method works as in order to get back to his fantasy, he needs to start paying attention to your commands.

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Progressing from Beginner to Mistress
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But that’s just child’s play. In order to become a Mistress as opposed to just a woman who wants to be in charge, you need to do more. You need to begin to take control in ways that he might not be expecting. For example, you might want to:

• Create lists of tasks for him to accomplish each day – You want to make sure that he is always thinking of you, even when you’re not in the bedroom. As a sort of prelude to dominating later, make sure he serves his Mistress by doing things for her during the day too.
• Determine punishments that actually hurt him – You want to find ways to punish your new slave so that he knows you are the one in control.
• Withhold orgasm –The best way to control a man? Withhold orgasm from him during scenes and instruct him to hold off on masturbating. Teach him to worship your body. He may love big breasts on women now, but he will learn in time to worship you and your body. He will learn that his orgasms come from you and only you. Therefore you will become the sole sexual Goddess in his universe, in time he won’t even look at another woman.

Being a Mistress isn’t for everyone, but it can be a way to spice up your relationship, assuming you’re both ready and comfortable with the power exchange.

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Getting in touch with your Mistress side takes a little practice, and a lot of knowledge but once you get started, you’ll begin to see just how rewarding controlling someone else is. And that soft touch will be a thing of the past. For more information on how to unleash your inner Dominatrix go to:

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Keeping Proper Submissive Posture

May 6, 2011

No matter how long a scene might be, posture is everything to your Master. You need to make sure that you are graceful and poised, no matter what might be asked of you. In order to keep your posture proper, you need to learn a bit about how to hold yourself internally as well as externally. Though it might seem simple enough to stand up straight, when you are being trained and tested, you may find you need more than just the reminder to stop slouching.

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Remember Your Positions
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If you have a number of positions that your Master likes you to use, it is a good idea to practice these when He is not around. This will allow you to retain muscle memory of what your body should feel like when you are in different scenes. You will also want to make sure that you are holding your positions as best you can during scenes to continue to teach your body how to stand or sit. Whenever you can, make sure to ask your Master to adjust you as needed. This will continuously improve the way that you hold yourself and the way that you behave in scenes. Whenever possible, try out the positions you are expected to know and see how long you can maintain these positions. When you’re watching TV, hold the positions, when you’re in the shower, hold your positions. Before long, they will be second nature and you will only need to focus on the commands of your Master, not on your posture.

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Maintain Inner Stillness
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What you might not realize is that outer stillness is greatly affected by your inner stillness. If you can not maintain control and balance inside, you will not be able to maintain stillness when you stand. Each time you are in a scene with your Master, try to calm your mind as much as possible. Whether you decide to chant one word in your mind or you focus on your breathing, try to settle any worries or concerns in your head first before you attempt to keep your body in its proper position. You can also practice meditation and other calming practices outside of your dungeon to help you create a calmer attitude throughout your life. Try to keep yourself calm during scenes since this will also help you obey your Master, no matter what He might ask of you during that scene.

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Focus on One Object
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While you are in a scene where you need to maintain a certain posture, it’s a good idea to stop and focus on one object in the field of vision. Try to watch only that object, never wavering for a moment. Your body will need to also hold a certain position in order to create a consistent posture and view. If your Master wants you to look at different things during a scene, that’s what you should do, but whenever possible, come back to the object that will help remind you where you need to stand and where your attention should be.

Posture doesn’t seem like it should be that important to a slave or to a Master, but when you think about it, it’s the way a slave carries herself that shows the Master how they think of their position. If you’re not graceful, then it might be a sign that the Master is not effective at His training of you. Instead, you need to hold yourself in a way that will make your Master proud – even if He is the only one that ever sees you.

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The Mystery Box Scene

May 3, 2011

You need to have surprises in any relationship and a well-trained slave might feel you have nothing more to show them after you’ve been together for a while. That’s where the mystery box can come in handy. This scene will allow you to be in control of your slave, without having to tell them what’s happening, why it’s happening, or what might happen next. Make your slave feel as though they are new to training once more – and bring out this box when you begin to see that your slave needs to be reminded who’s in control.

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What’s in the Box?
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Before you can start the mystery box scene, you need to figure out what’s going to go into the box you have to give to your slave. Some ideas but not limited too include:

• A sexy outfit
• Bondage materials
• Clamps and clips
• Corset
• Instructions

What you might want to do is create an entire scene, placing the things you need for this scene in the box. This will ensure you have all of the items you need to torment and tease your slave, but the slave might not be sure how you are using all of them. In fact, if your slave is bright and well-trained, you may want to throw a few things into the box that you aren’t going to use, just to keep them guessing.

This box might contain instructions about what to wear, when to put it on, how to bind themselves, etc. This box will be a sort of game that the slave plays with themselves, acting both as Master/Mistress and slave.

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Delivering the Box
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The box might be something that gets delivered by you personally or you can take a risk and have the box delivered to the slave at home or at work. Let them know there is a package coming for them that is for their eyes only. When they know this, they will begin to create a strong picture in their mind about what they can expect, even though they might have no idea what you are up to – and you might want to keep it that way.

You can also deliver this box to them at their home without saying anything to them. Place the box in a place where your slave will find it and then see what their response is once they receive it. You will then be calling the shots, even when you’re not in the room with them.

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A Slave and the Box
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Your slave might be instructed to follow a certain set of instructions in the box, on a certain day, in a certain manner. They might be told to listen to a certain song, wear something, or present themselves in a particular way. If these instructions are not carried out as ordered, the slave might need to have a certain punishment or they might need to try a new Mystery Box in order to see if they are willing to listen to what you have commanded them to do. If the slave follows the orders, you have a scene to create with them and then you can decide during the scene if the slave is a good one that deserves rewards as much as they might want punishments.

The Mystery Box is a good way to test out a new slave and to see what an older slave can do when they aren’t sure what to expect. The more that you can test your slaves, the better, but it doesn’t hurt to have a little fun along the way too.

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