Shaving Your Partner Before a Scene

June 21, 2011

If you want to bring your partner into a state of tension, even before a scene begins, you might want to look at the value of shaving right before you begin. Not only is this a hot way to begin a scene, but it can also create anticipation that will make for intense orgasms and BDSM play. Nothing says control like telling your partner that you’re going to shave their most intimate areas.

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The Basics of Shaving
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When you’re shaving your partner, you don’t want to hurt them. You just want them to think about the possibility that you might hurt them – talk about trust and power control. Shaving should occur in a few different steps:

* Heat up the skin with hot water – This will help to bring the hairs out of the follicles, allowing for a closer shave.
* Trim Off Long Hairs - If their pubic region is very bushy, use some scissors to trim the hair to make it easier to shave.
* Add shaving cream, gel, or oil – This will help the blade move across the skin more easily.
* Use a sharp razor – Whether you use a straight blade or a traditional razor, having a sharp blade will help to create a smoother and safer shave. Shave in the direction of the hair growth. Rinse between each stroke to clean the blade off and keep it ready for a new stroke.

You will find that you are going to need some practice at first with shaving your partner, especially if you’ve never shaved those areas of your own body. Take some time to practice on your own body first and then turn the blade onto your slave.

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Building up the Tension
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It can help to build up the tension of the shaving by letting your slave know of this a few days in advance. Let them know they are to grow out their hair so that it can be shaved away. You might also want to have them choose the razor and shaving cream you will use. It will also be good to have them soak in a hot bath before you shave them, for a little while as this will heat the skin and cause them to think about what you’re going to do with them. Put them up on a table where you can reach them easily and tell them not to move. The slave is certain to stay still, no matter what you do.

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Being Safe When Shaving
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When you are shaving someone else, you will want to move slowly across the skin, moving in larger strokes on flat pieces of skin, and in shorter strokes on smaller areas of less smooth skin. Take your time and don’t worry as much about how close the shave is, at least not at first. What you will want to do is to move methodically and smoothly, not in a jumping manner. You want your slave to be as still as possible, so gentle caresses while you are shaving are going to be the best way to use this in your scenes. You might also want to have your slave shave themselves in front of you for the first few times. This will help you to learn how to move around their skin, while also adding some objectification and humiliation to the scene for your slave.

Shaving your slave before a scene will allow you to create a stronger connection in your relationship, while also helping to boost the adrenaline in the scene. While you might not use this shaving scene every time, it will help to keep a slave under control and ready for a longer night of play.

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Should You Try to Be A Submissive Sometimes?

June 10, 2011

Mistresses have to do a lot to control their slaves. Not only do they have to plan out lessons and training sessions, but they also have to maintain razor sharp focus as the scene progresses. As a result, some Mistresses can begin to feel burnt out and they can begin to feel exhausted by their slaves. Some Mistresses decide that in order to keep their edge, they might try out being a submissive once in a while. Not only does this take the pressure off of them, but it also allows them to see what their slave might do were they to be in the power position. Plus, seeing a slave take over allows a Mistress the chance to see the relationship through the slave’s eyes – which might inspire some increasingly deviant practices.

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Giving Over Power to Gain Trust
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Now, there are some Mistresses who will never give up their command of the slave. They believe that they are the only ones doing any controlling in the scene. However, some other Dominant women feel that giving control over to their slaves once in a while shows that they do trust their slave and the decisions they might make. This allows the relationship to deepen and the slave is given the ultimate reward – the ability to please their Mistress. However, this submission is not to be considered more than a one or two time event for this is not true submission, just a training session in which the slave proves to the Mistress that they will and can do anything their Dominant asks them to do – no matter how unnatural it might seem to their senses.

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Pleasing the Mistress by Controlling Her
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Controlling anyone is hard work and this will be a lesson the slave will learn if control is handed to them. Some slaves believe a Mistress just barks out orders and commands, but doesn’t really do anything all that difficult – not the case. The slave who is put into the role will learn how much planning is put into each session, which will give them an even greater appreciation for their Mistress’ hard work. The slave will then try harder in sessions and not be as whiny when they think they are being pushed too hard.

In the Dominant role, the slave can also be given full reign to please the Mistress as she being controlled. And sometimes, it’s just better to give over control to someone else and, for once, just have a session in which the Mistress is pleased.

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The Case Against Submission
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But many Mistresses are true sadists and not masochists. They do not want any part of the submissive role. They just want to do naughty things to their slaves – nothing more or less. These Dominants believe that in submitting to their slave, their slave will not be able to see them as a strong woman anymore, that their power will become diminished in some way. This does happen in some cases, truthfully. But when this does happen, when a slave does begin to see their Mistress as weak, this is often a sign that the slave was never truly interested in being submissive. They were only trying it out and never fully gave over their will to their Mistress.

A Mistress who tries submission once or allows their slave to dominate them on occasion is not a Mistress who is any less powerful. The more knowledge a Mistress has, the more she can use this knowledge to control her slave – and that’s what matters in the end.

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Handling Body Issues While Being A Submissive

June 5, 2011

No matter how much your Master seems to care for you, it can be difficult to get over your body issues. So many women have to deal with this problem in their lives, but when you’re trying to impress your Master, it can become even more magnified. You might be afraid that any small flaw in your body will upset your Master and make him not want to take you on as a slave anymore. In order to be the best slave you can be for your Master, you need to look at your body as something that your Master wants you to appreciate as much as they appreciate it. Here are some ways you can deal with your body issues.

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Your Body is Your Master’s
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Right now, you need to remember that your body is your Master’s body. If you are spending time criticizing your body, you are criticizing your Master’s tastes in women and his ability to choose a slave. This is not the sort of mindset which will support you as a slave. You need to think about all of the things your Master has told you about your body and those are the thoughts you want to keep in your head. You need to keep in mind that if your Master wanted you to change your body, he would tell you to change your body. But since he does not, then your opinions about your body should not be the ones you need to repeat to yourself. Erase any and all ideas you have about your body from your mind and begin to focus instead on what your Master believes.

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Remembering What Your Master Thinks
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To make sure that you are focusing on the thoughts of your Master in regards to your body, it can help to keep a list of the things your Master has said about your body in your slave journal. This way, you can refer back to these notes when you begin to question your body, how it looks, how it smells, etc. Take some time to think about the way that your Master has touched your body, caressed your body, and owned your body. These thoughts too should go into your journal so that you can recall them and tattoo them into your brain.

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Choosing to Care for Your Body
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With all of this said, this does not mean that you shouldn’t take care of your body because your Master hasn’t said to change. You will still want to nurture your body with good food, with exercise, with rest, and with a healthy lifestyle. When you take the time to care for your body, you are showing your Master just how much you care about their possession and about keeping it ready for him. Be aware of your body’s health and make sure that you are treating your body as your Master would treat your body. It’s always a good idea to eat balanced meals to keep your energy up and your weight at a normal level. Getting regular exercise will help you to keep your muscles toned and your energy level up. Sleep will allow you to stay healthy and ready for anything your Master desires.

In time, your body issues will dissolve as your Master continues to train you and to focus on your growth as a slave. A Master who cares for his slave will keep them on – and if he had an issue with your body he would tell you. Until you hear otherwise, believe in your body the way your Master already does.

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