Creating High Intensity BDSM Scenes

July 18, 2011

When you’re ready to create a scene, whether as a Master or Mistress, the intensity is something you need to keep in mind. Scenes aren’t just about testing the mettle of a slave, but they are about finding out how well they can keep up with you and with the energy of the scene. In addition, as a Master or Mistress, you’re the one in control of the energy, so you need to know how to ramp it up, how to bring it down, and how to sustain it as your slave continues to serve you. Intensity is tough, but the results are worth the effort.

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Set the Stage
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Building a high intensity scene is not difficult once you’ve seen a few in action. You will notice that these higher intensity scenes begin with a setting that is ready for the action to come.

• Tools are laid out – There’s nothing more energy depleting during a scene than when you have to go look for something you need. Instead, make sure that you have all of the tools you need laid out before you or in a convenient location so you can reach out for what you need when you need it.
• High energy music is playing – An easy way to boost the energy of a scene is to use high energy and volume music. Not only will this disorient a slave, but it can also help to create the backdrop and soundtrack for your actions.
• Anything you need is ready – No matter what you think you might need for the scene, it should be ready, set up, and available.
• The slave sees where they will be – A clear view of their position will help a slave focus on the energy of a scene, rather than on anything they need to do to get prepared.

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Build the Energy
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To build the energy of a scene, it can help to have a common thread that begins when you begin. This might be a phrase, something you’re testing your slave on, etc. No matter what this is, start using this phrase or idea early on and then push this idea harder and harder as the scene continues. Louder and louder, harder and harder, you will begin to push the slave to do things you’ve never seen them do before. Continue to the point that they begin to have troubles maintaining their own energy, and then push them again and again. Whether this looks like them repeating a phrase or you spanking them again and again, continue to go faster and faster, harder and harder.

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Maintain the Level of Enthusiasm
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Since no one can go on forever, and you will get tired too, you need to find a way to maintain the energy once you’ve brought it up. A great way to do this is to stop what you’re doing so you can relax for a moment. Then switch things up to something that the slave is not expecting and that is just as high of intensity. When you do this, you will continue to have the energy, but you will also make things new for the slave and for yourself. This will continue a new energy level and allow you both to continue to be engaged.

With an awareness of energy, you can begin to see that your part in a scene as a Master or Mistress is to start building the energy and keeping it up there. And once you’re done with your slave, then they can begin to slow down and rest. But only then.

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Hand Worship

July 11, 2011

Your hands are an erogenous zone, if you didn’t already know. These parts of your body are filled with nerve endings, which makes sense considering all they’re tasked to do during the day. Your hands are the way that you perceive the world and they can also be a source of erotic pleasure. If you’re looking to create a new scene in your BDSM relationship, perhaps it’s time to turn to hand worship – and even if this doesn’t end up being a regular part of your routine, your hands deserve the worship anyway.

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Preparing the Hands
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As with any part of the body that deserves worship, you will want to prepare the hands of the person who is being worshipped. This will begin with a cleansing of the hands to ensure there is no dirt or grime there. Next, the hands will need to have some oils rubbed on them, focusing on the dry spots as well as on the cuticles above the nails. Next, the nails can be trimmed, as needed. The hands can then have lotion or massage gel rubbed into them, helping to ease any tension or any pain that might be in the hands. The hands are then wiped of any excess lotion and they are ready to be worshipped the way they were designed to be worshipped.

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Sucking on Fingers
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You might already know that sucking on toes is an erotic experience for both the giver and the receiver, but when you turn to the hands, that can also be just as hot. Move from finger to finger, licking them up and down (slowly) and then suck on each finger to ensure they are completely worshipped. These fingers can mimic a penis, so you can stroke them up and down, moving them in and out of your mouth until your Mistress or Master is pleased. Then you can move to licking and stroking the entire hand and palm to ensure the hand is completely soothed and pleasured.

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Creating Worship Scenes
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The hand worship scene is simple to construct and it can help you create a stronger bond between the Dominant and the submissive.

* Hand preparation – Before any hand worship scene, you will want to prepare the hand to be the focal point. This might include a manicure, if the slave is able to perform this task.

* Role playing – One way to create a scene is to have the Master or Mistress instruct the slave on how to prepare their hands for a scene in which they will be tested.

* Another role playing idea – Have the slave be a hand care specialist who doesn’t do their job well, so the Master or Mistress must punish the slave until they get it right.

* Continued hand worship – The hands can also be worshipped in every scene with simple kisses or strokes. This is especially important when the Master or Mistress’ hands are tired after spanking or flogging.

* Hand rituals – At the start of each scene or the end of each scene, it might be a good idea to include some sort of hand worship. After all, the hands are what dole out the punishments and what hand out the pleasure.

Hand worship allows both the Dominant and the submissive to have a chance to show how much they appreciate the hands they have and the hands that have them. By taking the time to be grateful, the hands can continue to do what they need to do in order to create the best BDSM scene and connection possible.

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