Train Your Body To Orgasm On Command

September 29, 2011

Many people just think that the female body isn’t able to orgasm on command. There are quite a few people who still think that women’s bodies are mysteries and that they are simply unable to do what you want them to do without a lot of work. The misconception that women aren’t able to become aroused as easily is simply not true. What is true is that women tend to be more easily aroused by things which are more cerebral – better put, women’s minds need to be turned on first before their bodies will follow. So, when it comes to wanting to orgasm on command for your Master, you will need to involve your mind first and then you can easily cum when you are told to cum.

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Cum When You are Called
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The art of cumming on command is not an easy task, admittedly. With so many years of thinking your body will only cum under certain conditions, it can be difficult to let go of this sort of thinking. But with some practice and some effort, you can cum when you are told to cum. What you need to do first is to let go of any beliefs about your body and about how it works. The body is more complicated than you can even begin to imagine, so it’s time to keep that in mind first. The body is also very effective in terms of adapting to new conditions and new stimuli, so once you find what will trigger your orgasms, you will be able to tap into them whenever your Master wants you to.

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With Your Master’s Help
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The easiest way to learn how to orgasm on command is to incorporate this training into your sessions with your Master. Each time you orgasm, for example, your Master might say a certain word or touch you in a certain place, helping your brain to connect these stimuli to the orgasm sensations. By linking these events together, your body will be able to recall their connection and respond to the stimuli with an orgasm – since that’s what’s happened in the past. With this method, it will take a lot of time to get to the point when your Master can simply give you a word and you will cum, but it will happen if you practice together – and you focus on the task ahead of you.

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Practicing On Your Own
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The best way to learn how to orgasm on command is to practice this on your own. What you will want to do, with your Master’s permission of course, is to begin to masturbate in a way that is pleasing to you and that is sure to get you to the point of orgasm. First, you need to learn how to make yourself orgasm with your own hand. Once you know how to do this and are capable of reaching an orgasm quickly and easy, you will want to try to bring yourself right to the edge of orgasm and then see if you can use your mind to push yourself to the orgasm without any more physical stimuli.

You might imagine the physical stimuli in your mind or imagine your Dominant saying their orgasm command word continuously in your head, but do not touch yourself anymore. See if your mind can bring you to orgasm. If you can, then the next time you masturbate, try to back off the orgasm even further to see if you can bring your mind to the final orgasm from that distance from the actual apex of your arousal.

Sometimes, slaves who simply focus on the idea that their Master wants them to orgasm on command are simply more willing and able to bring themselves to orgasm on command. Think about your Master and how pleased he will be when you can do what he wishes – sometimes that’s all the training you need.

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Safe Wax Play

September 21, 2011

The scene with wax is one that plays out in many BDSM movies and stories. The hot wax dripping on the skin seems like the perfect way to make a slave squeal with fright and pleasure. But while the movies make it seem so easy, the truth is that wax play can be dangerous if you don’t do it right. It’s a good idea to read up on wax play and how to be safe about it before you start lighting a candle and dripping it over anyone. After all, the more you do something safely, the longer you can use it in a scene without causing permanent physical harm to your slave.

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The Right Wax
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Most people will tell you that any wax is the right wax to use, but there are better waxes that can help you prevent any unnecessary pain or irritation. Some wax types melt point is high enough that serious burns can occur and require immediate medical attention – some of the types of wax that should be considered for use as BDSM hot wax include both Raw Paraffin (melts at 115° – 126°F) and Votive Candles (131° – 141°) of which Paraffin is the best. Many higher melt point candles such as beeswax etc. contain additives to make them have that higher melt point and these additives such as stearic acid and dyes or perfumes all of which can cause rashes or blistering when used in a BDSM type environment.

Ideally no temperature above 135° should ever come in contact with human skin, so raw paraffin perhaps with a little crayon additive is best for wax play. For candles specifically designed for wax play check out Wax Play Dripping Candles

With Wax play always test the temperature of the candle on yourself first. The best place to test is the underside of your forearm. After you have tested on yourself, you can then test out a small spot of skin on the slave first to see if they have any troubles with the wax you’ve selected for a scene.

Wax Play Candles

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The Right Position
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When you’re pouring wax on the body, you need to hold the candle up far from the body, rather than close. If you hold the candle too close to the body, you will find that the wax is very hot when it hits the skin, which can cause a burn. The further the candle is away from the body, the more time it has to cool down by the time it hits the skin. You will want to test different heights from which to pour the wax since every person is different and can handle different types of pain sensations. In some cases, you might be able to slightly lower the candle to create a more intense sensation, but this should only be done on skin that is tougher – i.e. the arms vs. the stomach or breasts.

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The Parts to Avoid
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No matter what the goal of a scene might be, you do not want to use wax on certain parts of the body. Though you might see it done in movies, these parts can suffer permanent damage in real life. The eyes, the ears, and the mouth are not places for wax to be poured. Avoiding the face in general is also a good idea since you don’t want to have any unsightly scars that you didn’t intend. Try to stick with parts of the skin that are tougher and that can handle more temperature variance than most other parts of the body can – i.e. the arms, the buttocks, the upper quads, etc.

Wax play can add a new dimension to your BDSM scenes, but you still need to be safe about it. The more that you can think ahead to prevent problems, the more you can focus on the scene, on enjoying it, and on having a good time before, during, and after.

FUN TIP: Try pouring different colors of wax onto the skin or trying to spell out words onto the slave’s body. That can create an interesting effect when the slave is told to look at it.

ANOTHER FUN TIP: Have the slave pour wax onto themselves in order to please their Master or Mistress.

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Adding A Hook To Your Training

September 12, 2011

When you have all of the regular sex toys in your bedroom, you might itch to try something new, something that makes your slave squirm and that makes your heart beat faster as soon as you pull it out. The anal hook is one of the sex toys that’s not only coveted by slaves, but also by Masters and Mistresses who want to show their slave how cold steel can train them to be still as well as to feel the most intense pleasure of their lives.

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What Can An Anal Hook Do
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The anal hook is a metal object that is curved so that it can be placed inside the anal canal. Since it is unforgiving, the sensations are very intense and a slave will have to be as still as possible in order to prevent any injuries. The hook can be used on its own or it can be used as a part of a complicated bondage method. For many slaves, the anal hook is a final test of sorts, helping to show their Masters or Mistresses that they can perform exactly as they are told, and that they can handle a sex toy that does not bend or give them any slack.

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How to Use an Anal Hook
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To make sure that you’re using an anal hook properly, it’s a good idea to find a reliable maker of the hooks. They should be made out of solid metals that are smooth at all sides and one of the ends should be used to either attach rope or to be held in place with a hand. You can then tie the rope to an anchored point in the ceiling, wall or even tie it off on one of the slaves body parts. From there you can continue with your spanking, flogging or other devious ideas, while the slave will remain secured and still in their place.

Always use lubricant with any form of anal play. Silicone based lube tends to work better for anal play, as it is the slipperiest, and longest lasting lubrication. It actually creates a smooth surface between the anal canal and the penetrating surface, so this helps to prevent any irritation against the sensitive anal canal. It never dries out, does not irritate the skin, and is not absorbed by the body making it hypo-allergenic. Its latex friendly, so it can be used with condoms and its waterproof, which means you can take your anal hook into the shower/bath and have just as much fun there. Silicone lube will make the anal hook easier to put in and to take out of the slave once the session is over. Silicone lube for anal hooks.

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Safety Concerns and Anal Hooks
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Since the anal hook is made from metal, you might be concerned about how it is used in a scene. You don’t want to injure yourself or a partner. First, look at the way the anal hook is designed. You might want to use this hook in a moderate scene to see how it fits into your slave’s body and ask the slave to talk about what it feels likes in different positions. This will show you how the slave’s body suits the hook and whether you need to take special precautions when you’re in a more intense scene. It’s also always a good idea to read any labels or instructions before adding the anal hook to the slave.

Make sure to use the anal hook when the slave is on their stomach or side, not when they’re on their back or sitting up. You want to make sure the hook isn’t going to be forced any further into the body than is necessary. You will also want to watch the hook, as it is being used in the slave to make sure it’s not moving around dangerously or that the slave isn’t being hurt. Having a clear sign as to when things might be going wrong will make ass hook play safer.

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TPE: Total Power Exchange

September 8, 2011

Power – the power over someone else’s thoughts, patterns, choices, and actions – this is the gift of a slave to a Master or Mistress. And while there might be times when the Dom/me and slave have to negotiate to decide what power means and how much to give, there are BDSM relationships in which the Dominant is able to have complete control over their slave. In total power exchange, you have a responsibility to not only accept trust from your slave, but also to take that control and use it to create a slave that is completely under your power.

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Total Power and Control
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A slave that wants to be under your control, completely under your control, is telling you that they trust you. But what do you do then? You might begin with a contract that outlines the ways in which you will control their lives. This might look like:

Permissions – You might have a slave that has to ask for permission to do everything. This can sound exciting at first, and it is, but it also means that as the Dom/me you need to weigh each of the requests carefully to ensure that you are saying yes or no to the things which you have already agreed upon in your contract.

Orders – Total power exchange can also take place when you have certain orders that your slave has to follow all the time. This might be certain phrases they need to follow in a certain way or it can mean that you have certain orders the slave needs to follow without thought.

Routines – Having routines that your slave has to follow each day can help you create the total power that you both crave. Down to the minute, your slave might need to accomplish certain tasks and goals so as to ensure you are both able to know what is expected during a typical day and during the relationship as a whole.

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How to Create Total Control
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The Total Power Exchange relationship means that your slave will do everything that you want them to do (aside from hard limits that might have been created). You will begin this process by being as strict as possible about what you want from your slave in the relationship, inside and outside of any dungeon or training session. Every moment of their lives needs to be dictated and controlled so that they are never without direction or without a chance to please you. You might begin by controlling their thoughts and responses in the bedroom, but then extend the power outside of the bedroom. This gradual control will be more effective as you will both be able to see how the control is working, and where more training needs to take place.

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Steps to Power Exchange
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You will begin with the contract of what this Total Power Exchange will mean and what it will look like. It can also help to have a day in which the slave submits to everything you say so that you can see whether this is realistic for the both of you. A lot of energy needs to go into this full control, and it might not be what the slave wants or what you want as their Dominant. You need to be ready to set aside time to manage your slave at first, but once the relationship begins to settle, you will find the power exchange becomes natural, even exciting since there are no more questions about who is in control – the Dominant is in control.

From the time the slave wakes up to the time you allow them to go to bed, you’re in control of every moment.

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