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Dom/me Question: I Hurt Him, How Do I Not Do That Again?

August 31, 2014

Flogging A SlaveDom/me Question:

My boyfriend and I just recently started dating though we’ve been best friends for almost four years. He loves being dominated and is a masochist. He knows a lot about BDSM and loves the sub aspect of it. I’m very new to being dom and would love to know a few things. Talking to him about the things he likes has been helping but it’s things like: Riding Crops, Whips, Paddle, etc. that I would really like help with. I hurt him last time we ventured (not in the good way) I would like to not do it again. If you have any tips for me I would greatly appreciate them.

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Master Bishop’s Opinion

The beginnings of any new BDSM relationship can be tricky, especially when you’re both new to this type of interaction. While reading about tips and watching videos can be helpful, often, it’s what happens in your bedroom that will give you the most training, so to speak.

When you’re in the role of being the Dominant, you have a responsibility for the safety and well-being of your submissive. Though you may have gone into this situation with the idea that the other person wants to be hurt, they may not have had this experience yet, so their idea of what this means may not be fully formed.

This is where you can come in and help train them.

Having all of the toys in the world is a start, but learning how to use them is the next part of the process. What I suggest you do is take the toys your boyfriend wants you to use and try them out on your own body. Take the paddle or the whip and try hitting your upper thigh to see how things feel. Find out what harder feels like, and what a soft blow might feel like.

Of course, your boyfriend will have another reaction to these sensations, as no one’s pain tolerance and threshold are the same. But when you start out by seeing what things feel like on yourself, you can begin to understand how the hits will feel on him too.

In the beginning, it’s best to start out with just your hand. If you really want to incorporate an implement than a crop is a relatively good and easy starting point. You will find it fairly easy to control, which will make it easier for you to be accurate with your strikes. Since a crop is very light weight it won’t have the intense impact of a paddle and with a wider impact tip it will not be as stingy as a cane.

Find places on his body where this will be best tolerated, i.e. his buttocks usually has the most cushion for impact. Start there and slowly warming up the skin and the nerves to the sensation. You don’t have to hit hard at first, as you want your boyfriend to tell you when it’s too much or when he wants to try to take more pain.

One thing I always incorporate with someone new that I’m training is have them tell Me how hard they want to hit.  Ask your sub on a scale from 1 to 10 (1 being the lightest and 10 being the hardest) what is the hardest you want to be spanked, cropped, flogged, whipped, etc.  You should ask for each type of impact toy as each have different levels of intensity and varying sensations. A sub may be able to handle a level 8 in spanking but only a level 4 with a cane.  

Once they have given you a level they believe they can handle, you will spank them with your hand or the implement and have them gauge the level of intensity they believe that impact was.  Lets say the most intense spanking your sub wants to receive is a 5.  Now you will proceed to spank them once with this level 5 in mind. After they receive this spank, ask your sub what level of intensity they thought that spank was on.  This is the important part, because here is where you are going to match your ideas of intensity together.

While I may believe the spank I just gave them was a five, how they feel the spank to be is what matters.  They may think that that spank I just gave them was a 3 at which point I need to try again with another spank that is just a little harder.  If they believe the spank was a 6, then I need to try again with a spank that is a little lighter.  Keep trying until the sub agrees that the intensity matches the level they are comfortable with.  You will find that most times it is fairly quick to match up the intensity levels between yourself and a sub.

With that said, this does not mean that you only spank, whip, flog or cane at that level.  This is just showing the absolute hardest impact that your sub is capable of receiving at this time.  When it comes to dishing out an impact session you will cycle through many different intensity levels, speeds, and styles.  Again start slow and light, slowly work your way to more intense (like a 3 or 4) for just a few seconds, come back down for a minute, work your way back up to a 4 and stay there for a minute.  Stop all together and run your fingernails over their red bottom which should start becoming more sensitive to touch.  Start slow again and after each impact hold the impact toy onto the place of impact, then try hitting and removing the impact toy immediately away.  Those just those two different strokes can produce very different sensations. After each impact try caressing the area with your hand…etc.  The point is that they are many ways in which you can switch up your striking to create different sensations for your sub. 

Don’t just try to hit your sub as hard are you can for as long as you can. In fact at first, you may not be able to hit his pain threshold, nor should you. In the beginning, you both need to learn what he can tolerate, and you need to be ready to stop IMMEDIATELY if he asks you to stop or uses a safe word.

Speaking of that, you need a safe word that will allow your partner to know they are in control of the pain they feel. This is especially important when you’re first starting out. They need to know they can stop things at any time and that you can be trusted to help them as they learn what works for them.

When the safe word is used, you need to stop. You can’t push past this point or else you will hurt them. At the same time, your boyfriend needs to be willing to take care of himself so that he isn’t hurt as well.

Remember, it’s not a contest to see how much pain you can inflict, but rather this is an exchange of power. He has given you permission to start to inflict pain, and you need to give him permission to tell you when it’s too much.

If you are still unsure about whether or not you might hurt your sub, try applying these techniques:

1) Accuracy is key to ensuring you don’t hurt your submissive when you play.  Many injuries occur because a Dominant ends up hitting the wrong area.  Instead of waiting to practice on your sub, get out a pillow and mark the pillowcase with an ‘x’ Now practice getting used to the how the tool moves in your hand and make sure you can consistently land the implement exactly where you want too.

2) With each smack of your implement have your submissive scream the level of intensity they believe that impact to have been. This way you can make sure that you are staying within their comfort and intensity level. Also this allows you to see more clearly how your submissive is holding up under each impact.  What they might have thought was a 3 in the beginning could become a 7 or 8 as the session progresses.  Even though you are swinging with the same force this change in intensity can be an indicator that the submissive is becoming overwhelmed and you should look at stopping the session.

3) Check in while play.  Some kinksters believe that checking in during a session can destroy the mood.  I believe as a Dominant that it is My responsibility to look after My submissive.  So while playing I make sure that My submissive is happy and wanting to continue with the scene.

4) Always sit down with your submissive and debrief what has just happened during your session.  Get some honest feedback, see what they liked, what they didn’t like and find out if there was anything else you could have done to make the session more intense or more enjoyable for them.

5) Always start with just one toy. Once you have both learned how it works, what he can take, and what he can not, you can choose to increase the intensity (if that is desirable) or once you have mastered that impact tool you can choose to learn a new implement’s abilities.

It’s a hard lesson when you find out you have hurt your partner more than was intended or expected. But you are reaching out now to learn how you can do better. You have a difficult role as the Dominant, and great care needs to be taken at first and, actually, at all times. Much of this relationship is trust, and when you don’t do what you say you’re going to do, you may find your boyfriend is less than willing to stay in the relationship.

Start slowly, build up to more strikes, and then move to other parts of the body when your boyfriend is ready. You can’t become a super-intense Dominant in one session or even ten sessions together. Like anything, good things take time.

Regards,

Master Bishop

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When Master Struggled, i Learned

August 20, 2014

i am a slave devoted to the loving care, happiness and desires of my Master. But recently it was beginning to feel as if i had no tools, no training, no clue or understanding about how to help that one most important person in my life, my Master.

It is amazing how unbalanced you can feel when the person who takes care of all your needs is struggling. When the one person who is always calm and in control, focused and strong is faced with a situation that is creating tremendous strain and stress on them and they now seem to be unbalanced themselves.

When i look at all that Master has done and continues to do every day so that W/we can live this amazing life.; To make sure that all my needs are met emotional, physically, financially, spiritual, i am flooded with such deep love and respect for Him. I’m humbled by His passion and capacity to love, His strength, integrity, honesty, His guidance, patience and humor. i understand more deeply my feelings of gratitude and honor to belong to Him. How blessed i am to Love Him… Why every day i choose to serve Him. (more…)

So watching Him struggle, seeing Him on edge and unbalanced, feeling His frustration was torture and not the fun kind. Now i may be a masochist but this kind of pain i was not handling very well. All i wanted to do was yell RED!!!.

Every day Master gets up at 5:00am, He gently wakes me with a kiss and then off to prepare for work. Yes work. Ok a bit of drama, but you know the story. Struggling, He finds himself in a position where He must deal with the current situation until He can safely make a change without compromising O/our stability. It’s been frustrating and stressful to say the least.

Over the past few months it seems things have just become more difficult, and stress filled for Master. In my heart i wish He could just quit this job. Walk away and not look back. I’m pretty certain this is exactly what He wants to do as well but He can’t… actually He won’t. He won’t because He would never walk away from His responsibilities or obligations. He won’t because He has promised to take care of me. He won’t because as a Master with integrity and Honor He is expected to take care of everything.

Master’s stress is off the charts and He struggles daily to control it and to protect me from undue worry. Still, i could feel it in His touch and see it in his eyes when He would drift off inside Himself. i wanted to serve, wanted desperately to help relieve Master’s stress. i Wanted…. no Needed to do whatever i could to show Master that i was grateful for all He has done for U/us and O/our family and that i was strong and able and willing to do whatever i could to help.

i became almost consumed with thinking about what more i could do to help. How can i make this better for Sir? How can i be a better slave and take better care of Master? ???????

So i tried the usual. More service.

i learned how to use the lawn tractor, Taking on more chores at home, adding to my domestic service. i actually am enjoy mowing the lawn and i think Master likes the way i look in my shorts, tank top and work boots sitting on top of the lawn mower. Then i made a few budgetary changes, financial service… help relieve some financial stress. Increased personal services, massage, sexual offers… you get the picture.

So while all of my efforts were extremely appreciated, they did not seem to be working. Master was still coming home, stressed, frustrated, tired, angry, and struggling so hard to keep control. In fact i think my extra efforts were actually adding to His stress. Sir is a very generous and appreciative Master and He likes to reward me for my extra efforts and services with special play or training and while fun and distracting they require planning and time and energy and can add to a Master’s stress. Just thinking about all the preparation and planning that goes into a training or play session and i get tired.

Next i tried distraction. Both productive and fun.

Saturday, Master had to stay close to home and on call in case he was needed at the office (yeah… great start to the stress free weekend i had hoped for). So i suggested perhaps Saturday would be an excellent day for U/us to tackle a top to bottom, spit shine cleaning of the Sun room. It was a big project, removing and cleaning windows and the window tracts and walls and ceiling. Oh did I mention Master’s Sun room has 2 full walls of windows and 2 walls and a ceiling that are completely white aluminum wall panels. There is also the Pool table, to be cleaned and polished, and the carpet to be cleaned and shampooed as well. Like i said it was a big project.

So i put on my shortest shorts, tight tank top and purple rubber gloves (sexy) and began gathering cleaning supplies. Master turned on the radio to a favorite station and the cleaning began. Well there was cleaning, and singing and dancing and touching and pinching and grabbing and teasing of all sorts and oh yes more cleaning and more laughing. Then there was a lunch break… and more, dancing, and cleaning and grabbing.

The weekend turned out to be a great success but i knew Monday would come….

Monday morning after kissing Sir and wishing Him the good day i knew He just would not have, i began my daily chores. I felt some relief that the weekend brought Sir some much needed laughter and distraction and He was able to decompress and unwind a bit and let go a bit. But i was certain i couldn’t do this every weekend. Master has amazing energy levels but i’m certain this is not the area He would prefer to expend them in….

As my mind continued to review and rewind and re-examine, i began to notice that my own focus had become unbalanced and obstructed. i was becoming forgetful. Missing simple instructions and lacking in attention and direction. i was consumed with concern for Master’s physical and mental health…. What can i do?

Perhaps i should consider returning to work? Perhaps this would make it easier for Master?  He could take a step back and refocus His efforts on trying to obtain another job. One He would be happier at.

So many questions…

Then somewhere in the middle of this kaleidoscope of thoughts and feelings and self-examination i realized that perhaps i need to change the questions. Instead of; what can i do, what can i change, how can i fix this?

Perhaps what i should be asking is, Am i providing Master with what He wants and desires?

Do i serve Him with an open and honest heart?

Do i submit freely without reservation or hesitation?

Am i open and available and willing to provide any and all service Master may ask of me, within our agreed limits of course? Has Master asked anything of me that i have not provided?

Am i being the loving, obedient, devoted, slave i promised Master i would be? Isn’t this where your focus needs to be?

Okay, i am determined to keep focused on my responsibilities, rituals, protocols. Focus on my service and obedience to Master. Master deserves nothing less.  Just focus on being His slave…

The weekend is almost here and i must schedule time to talk with Sir about our weekend obligations and potential social calendar. i begin to get anxious, once again concerned that i will be bringing another decision, another burden to His already full plate. I close my eyes, take deep breaths and focus on Master. Then i hear Him, in my head. The instructions are clear. i am to review, confirm and RSVP and acknowledge or decline all social events on Master’s behalf… (Social service)… This is my responsibility. This is what Master requires. This is what Master needs from me.

The schedule meeting time has arrived and i am sitting at Master’s feet and W/we are discussing O/our week and the upcoming weekend. Master is trying to focus but i can see He is struggling i can see His mind is drifting. i think it is about work. “Sir we can review the schedule later if You prefer?” i respectfully suggest.

“No, This is the time I set” He replied. Continuing i reminded Sir that i had a tentative social gathering with a few submissive friends on Saturday afternoon and i need to confirm or decline my attendance. Sir always encourages me to get out and spend time with friends both in and out of the lifestyle.

Master became very still and pensive for what seemed like many, many long minutes. i sat quietly waiting for Him to decide if i had His permission to attend. i was growing concerned and nervous with each passing moment. Not sure if He had heard me or not. But i waited…

Then Master gently looked down at me and said, “i know how hard you have been trying to relieve My stress. i appreciate all the… let’s say creative and interesting and fun ways you have found to distract and please me. Thank you for that. I also know how much you have been struggling to find the service you could give me that would bring me peace and balance. Your determination and devotion to serve amazes me. I also know how much you look forward to these get-togethers, and you deserve to unwind, but this time you are going to decline.

Yes, for all your efforts i am going to disappoint you..   you are going to decline. you are going to decline because this weekend all i need is to have you right here, at my feet, sitting, kneeling, and serving. In My arms, body wrapped around Me, under Me, over Me. Holding tight to the Love and Passion W/we share. Reminding me of how lucky i am to own you. This weekend all i need is for you to Stay right here!!!!! Stay and be my slave….”

My tears began flow as my lip trembled trying to control the emotions. i was consumed with love and complete devotion. i could barely speak all i could think to say was “yes Master” “Thank You Sir”…

i understood right then, i didn’t need to find more tasks or chores. Or create projects or distractions or to try and offer solutions that were not mine to offer.

Sometimes the best thing i can do is to just be His slave. Do exactly what it is He has asked of me. Don’t look to change or fix everything. Know that, this is not my responsibility.

i learned, sometimes the best thing i can do is just Walk with Him as he moves through His struggles. Sit with Him during quiet times. Maintain my own balance, focus, and submissive attitude, mindset, heart and behavior. Acknowledge, understand, accept, and embrace my role and responsibilities as His slave and to just…. Stay!!!!

sub kathleen

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Sub Question: Is Everything About Pleasing The Dominant?

August 12, 2014

Collaring A Female SlaveEverything I read is about pleasing the Dominant. Is there ever a time when attention is focused on the submissive’s pleasure? Or is a submissive’s life just about serving and pleasing the Dominant for the rest of their life to never receive pleasure again?

Anonymous

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Master Bishop’s Opinion

 

Reading about what happens in a BDSM relationship and actually being in one are two different things. Let me be the first to tell you that what you have decided to be true is only partially right. In some BDSM relationships, the focus is not on the submissive’s pleasure. This is often the choice of the submissive, so it’s something they expect to be the case.

On the other hand, the submissive’s role is to serve the desires of their Dominant. Plain and simple. If they are not interested or willing to do this, then they are not going to be a good fit for that kind of relationship. Many slaves not only find it easier to serve someone else, but they are also PLEASED to get the chance to serve someone else.

At the same time, a Dominant is meant to give a submissive the control, direction, and structure that so many subs long for.  Rising up to the challenges of service and allowing oneself to feel safe and free within a controlled relationship can be very pleasurable to a submissive.

That’s right. Many slaves derive a great amount of pleasure from service, from hearing they’ve done a good job, and from knowing they are excelling in their training. Imagine what it’s like to have someone train you and you can follow all of his or her commands. Imagine what it’s like to work hard to please someone else and they tell you that you’ve done a great job.

Isn’t that pleasurable? Especially when that task was extremely difficult and you actually exceed the person’s expectations.  Many people find a whole new level of confidence in themselves and find pleasure from doing such an amazing job and making someone they care about happy.

However, My guess is that you’re referring to sexual pleasure for the slave, but it’s not clear from your question. If this is the case, let’s talk about that for the moment. Not everyone’s pleasure looks the same. Some slaves define pleasure as service; others define it as pain. Still other slaves might derive pleasure from orgasms, while others might enjoy being humiliated.

The most common question I receive from submissives is how to get their partners to be more Dominant and controlling.  If giving over control is not pleasurable then why do so many submissives crave more of it?

As you can see, it’s hard to get a grasp on pleasure, as it’s different for everyone.

I tell newbie slaves and Dominants to discuss what they want out of the relationship right from the start. Before anything happens in the bedroom, you both need to be clear about what you expect. In doing so, you can decide if you’re a good fit for each other, or if you need to find someone else to meet your BDSM needs. This includes what you find pleasurable and how you derive that pleasure.

Right now, I can see that you are a sub that wants to experience pleasure from their Dominant. There are many Dominants who are quite willing to do this. I truly believe in providing submissives with lots of pleasure as its important for a submissive to learn where their pleasure comes from, which is their Dominant. Knowing this can help to inspire a submissive to want to serve more.

A different model I use when a slave has requested more intense control is to use pleasure as a reward.  All pleasure is held off until the slave has proven that they have earned the right to receive any pleasure from the Dominant.  The slave must be at their best behavior, if pleasure is their goal. For most slaves, this is not a problem and they enjoy the challenge. However, it’s not for everyone. While this puts a lot of pressure on the slave, it is normally done at their request.

Some slaves will seek out sexual gratification from other partners in their life, and not their Dominant, for example. But they work with a Master or Mistress because they want to be dominated, even if pleasure is not the main goal.

I would encourage you to think about why you want to be pleasured by a Dominant. Is it for control? Is it for a reward? Or do you just want to receive pleasure in a kinky way because normal sexual gratification is no longer as interesting for you?

Hopefully I have been able to show that submissives receive plenty of pleasure in their training.  In fact, every Dominant should be providing equal amounts of pleasure to their submissives, its just the pleasure will come in different forms.  It mostly depends on what kind of pleasure it is that you seek and what kind of agreement/understanding you have come to with your Dominant.

Another article that might pique your interest: Does a Slave Deserve to Be Happy?

Regards,

Master Bishop

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How To Make Up For A Mistake As A Submissive

August 6, 2014

How a slave can show they are sorryThough you may try to be the best submissive you can be, there will be times when you fail. There will be times when you let your Master down and they are displeased with you. While you will hopefully not be trying to make your Master mad at you, when you do disappoint them, you can use this time as a learning opportunity, allowing you to become better in your role and more effective in your submissive title.

Know What You Did

At times, you may not understand what you have done wrong, even if you know that your Master is displeased. It makes sense to begin the process of atonement by learning what the problem is/was. Talk to your Master and ask them to tell you what you should have done differently. In addition, you will want to search within yourself to find out what you feel you did wrong. There are other layers to your submissive nature, and you may find that there are emotional blocks that are hindering you in your goal to please your Master.

Learn What to Do

You may also want to ask your Master what they would rather you have done at the time of your failing in your role. When you do this, try to learn as many specifics as possible, since this will ensure you understand exactly what you did, how you needed to act, and what you WILL do the next time you are in that situation.

Ask for Guidance

To show that you are not simply asking your Master for the answers, let them know that you are interested in learning how to make up for mistakes when they happen. Be clear in talking with your Master about how you want to do better and that it would be helpful to you to find out what else they might need from you in order to move past this situation.

Request Forgiveness

Once you have found out what you have done wrong, thought about it, and corrected what needs to be corrected, you can ask your Master for forgiveness. This might be something that you ask for after a few days, as you want to show that you have thought on your mistake and that you understand that you have disappointed him. Realize too that he may not forgive you immediately, and be graceful in accepting this decision as well.

Don’t Repeat the Mistake

The best thing you can do once you have make a mistake is to make sure that you never, ever do it again. While it’s true that you are human and that you are going to make mistakes, when you are in a submissive role, it is best to make sure you are diligent about learning from those mistakes. You need to spend your time finding out how you can overcome your human propensity for errors. Practice the behaviors that are acceptable and practice shifting your mind to successful submission.

If you find you are making more mistakes than usual in your slave role, it may be time to consider whether you are cut out for the role. You want your Master to have the best submissive possible, and this means someone who is dedicated to learning and improving.

Most of the time, mistakes that happen will be corrected and life in the dungeon will move on. Remember, you are responsible for your learning and for your growth as a submissive, and it is your duty to make sure you make up for the mistake as much as you can – by learning and applying the lessons correctly.

Regards,

Master Bishop

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The Power Of A Master’s Voice

July 30, 2014

Inspiration to motivate a submissive to want to submitThough many slave training sites will have you believe that a Master’s job is merely to use a whip to get their submissive to do what they want, this is not the entire story. Instead, a Master can use their voice and their tone to completely control and manage the behaviors of a slave, allowing them to spend less energy and less time on training and more time on seeing the results of a completely submissive slave.

Tone is Everything

Your voice changes, depending on the way you feel and depending on the way you interact with others. And while your slave may not understand all of the nuances of your voice, realize that your voice will convey the way you feel and the way you are in control (or not). The deeper your voice, the more controlling you will appear, so it is best to try to use that lower tone when you are in a scene with a slave. In addition, make sure you speak slowly, as this forces the slave to listen to every word you have to say and to respond only when you are done talking (not when they want to respond).

Silence Creates Control

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At the same time, the silence you choose to use in your scenes will also help to control your slave. Make sure there are times when you don’t say anything and you don’t respond to anything they say. They will eventually learn that silence is a good thing, and something they should model as well. You may even want to try training your slave without saying a word, helping them internalize the lessons you have already shown them and helping them focus inward on how they can please you, based on what you’ve already taught them.

Surprise Your Submissive

When you begin to see the changes in your slave as you change your tone, try surprising them with different tones of voice at different times. Perhaps at some times you are harsh and demanding, while at other times, you are soft or silent. Keeping your slave unsure about what they can expect from you causes them to be vigilant in their behaviors and focused on what they need to be doing, based on how they have been trained. If the slave doesn’t know how you will control them, they will need to be ready for anything.

Observe the Slave’s Reactions

Try blindfolding your slave and trying out different tones of voice when you are in a training session with them. This will allow you to see their reactions and it will tell you how your slave might respond to certain tones of voice. Information like this can then be incorporated into your next training session, and allow you to target your training to their slave’s current responses. In time, they might respond differently, so maintain awareness about how they are and what they might do when you respond in a certain way.

Your voice is the only tool for control you really need, once you know how to use it. Though you may not know how to use your voice effectively right now, the more confident you are in your role, the more your voice will follow. Pretend you are the most knowledgeable person in the world when you walk into the dungeon and speak with a strong voice. Your slave already thinks of you as being someone who can control her, so all you need to do is follow through with a commanding voice.

Let your voice command your slave and let your voice do the training for you. Soon, your voice will ring in her ears and mind each time she has to decide how to please you.

Regards, 

Master Bishop

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