BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
I am brand SPANKING (pun intended) new to this dominatrix thing. I fell absolutely in love with it as soon as I saw the welts left on my slave’s ass from our first spanking session! Can you give me an example of how a few sessions might go with you and your slave? How you start, what you do, how you talk, how you finish […]
Dom/me Question: Brand Spanking New To Being A Dominatrix Read More »
If you look around your house right now, it might not look like it’s suitable for a slave and their Master or Mistress. Everything looks mundane and you might even think that your training is suffering as a result. Instead of thinking about how you can buy one of those gothic castles with the place to lock up your slave, think about your workout room.
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I have a quick question. I`ve been a closet Master as I call it, for 5 years. I finally came out and started joining the local scene. Now lately, I feel I regret that choice because all I`ve been is judged based in my methods of actually caring for my toys, my slaves…loving them after they do tasks for me. I`ve been judged based on
Dom/me Question: What Can I Do To Move Forward? Read More »
I have come to a very real, and potentially very bad place in my D/S relationship: We are both pretty new to the scene and to be expected I’m not very good at it, but my sub isn’t very good at communicating, what she wants/needs, so we are at a semi impasse. The most I know is, I’m doing something wrong and she isn’t feeling
Dom/me Question: My Sub Isn’t Very Good At Communicating Read More »
I am one half of a relationship formed around the dynamic known as DaddyDom-LittleGirl (DDLG), and when I explain this to people the question I am inevitably asked is “But why call him Daddy”. This article is my response to every person who has ever asked me this question, and hopefully it will be able to assist others involved in the Caregiving paradigm, whether Adult
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By sub serenity i awake under my Owner’s bed, in my comfy kitten crate, curled up on my princess bed with my collar and bell tingling softly in the morning. Laying quietly until He calls me up to greet Him in bed, He opens the door allowing me freedom to hop up. Before He gets ready for the day, He always takes time to stroke
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The problem with watching porn on the Internet and on videos is that you see all of this great BDSM gear that you can’t always find in stores. Or you might find something like a bondage belt that you absolutely adore, only to find it costs hundreds of dollars. Instead of looking at the screen longingly for your next BDSM toy, you might want to
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We all have them, those amazing sexual fantasies; the ones that may have first introduced us to the passions burning with in us, the desires that go beyond the typical sexual acts of the vanilla couple. The romantic, animalistic beautifully painfully and scary pictures painted in all those novels, the Victorian house maid, the pleasure slave, the kidnapped, bound and tortured and the 50 shades
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You are in control at all times, and you know that your slave is listening to you. But when you are new to being a Mistress or when you have certain slaves, there may be times when you feel as though you need to be angry and aggressive. You may feel as though you need to scream and curse in order to get what you
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When you’re in a relationship that focuses on power exchange, it can seem like this happens in one direction: the submissive serves the Dominant, without questions. While this might be the fantasy and the energy you want to create in a scene, it is still just a FANTASY. In reality, there are two (or more) people who each have their own needs and their own
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