BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
When it comes to getting your sub in the mood, it would be so much easier if subs were always perfect…but this isn’t realistic. Sometimes subs just aren’t ready for a session, even if they want to be. Your job as the dominant person in the relationship is to make sure your sub is ready to serve you and to be submissive to you when […]
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Oh Halloween, the time of year where everybody in North America dresses a little more risque, lowers their inhibitions and accepts many of the taboos in the world. If you ask Me, clearly this is a sign that many people truly have a desire for the naughty things in life. While they try to ignore it for most of the year, they need at least
Preparing myself for Master is like preparing a special meal. The time and attention taken is as focused and planned as a 5 course meal. Allow me to share the steps i take to prepare myself for Master. The Recipe Step one: Choose the mood or theme for the meal i believe a special meal should have a theme. Usually the theme is centered on
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You might be a person who likes control – of course you do. You want your slave to do what you want them to do when you want them to do it. In order to stay completely in control, you might even plan out your scenes in great detail so as to ensure your slave is always being challenged and trained. But what about doing
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Trust is one of the tenets of a Master-slave relationship. If your slave doesn’t trust you, then the relationship will fizzle out and die. Often in training, you will create scenarios in which your slave’s trust is tested and tested again. Sometimes, it can be challenging to continuously find ways to test your slave. A new way to test the trust of your slave is
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When you go to see a play, you might notice that the props can often make an ordinary scene one that is memorable. The same thing can be said for BDSM scenes. Though you might have a powerful voice and a strong presence, there’s something more exciting about a Mistress or Master that pulls out a prop and begins to throw it around at a
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I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting especially when W/we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or
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I love bondage and that’s the only thing that really gets me sexually in the mood with my mistress. She likes to bind me and fuck me but what do I do if my mistress wants something I can’t provide? Sincerely, LJ ============================ Mistress Brianne’s Opinion
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A slave waiting patiently but feeling blind to their true purpose It is time to see W/we all need to feel like W/we have purpose in O/our lives. A person who does not have any sense of purpose can suffer from feelings of depression, stress, and anxiety. Their days overwhelm them despite much of the time they feel like they have nothing to do. They
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The times when I feel most in service— Are not when i am following the rules, being obedient, or learning a new task or mastering a new protocol. Although absolutely vital to my submission and service and growth these are not the times i feel most in service. The times when i feel most in service —Are when i can take a stress from Master without
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I have been rereading your book over and over, each time I learn something new.
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Thanks to you I finally realize how strong of a person I am!
P.S. just love all the new tricks I have learned
Mistress Sarah
