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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse

The Difference Between BDSM & Abuse

BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.

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The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants

Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.

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No Impact Masochist Play BDSM

No Hitting! 10 Painful, Impact-free Ways to Please a Masochist

Spanking, paddling, whipping, caning, mmm YUMMY. Words like these are music to a masochist’s ears. Well, some masochists, anyway. Believe it or not, there are those who don’t like to be hit. They may have experienced prior trauma related to hitting. Others simply don’t enjoy the sensation. In cases like these, doms must get creative. Whether your sub dislikes impact or you’re simply seeking additional […]

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BDSM Skills For Tough Times

Make the Most of Your BDSM Skills During Lockdown

Welp, there’s no nice way of saying it. These are challenging times! Our individual and collective futures are loaded with uncertainty, and feeling isolated from those we love doesn’t help. Luckily for us kinky types, we already hold a number of valuable skills that can help us thrive through these tense periods of lockdown. Here’s how you can make the most of them. Sharing is

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Taking a Break from BDSM

Sometimes, you just need a break, don’t you? Change is, after all, a good way to get perspective, to learn about new things so that when you go back to what you know, you can be refreshed. However, BDSM is a different sort of practice. In order to have a strong BDSM relationship, you need to continue training and practicing the actions you decide to

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Please Stay Safe

As I am sure you are well aware, the world is currently in the midst of a global pandemic. Fear has swept the globe and depending on where you reside different measures have been put in place to help stop the spread of this disease. Here at the BDSM Training Academy, W/we have spent a lot of time discussing how to keep yourself safe within

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I had to accept my failures as a Dominant in BDSM

House Rule: Failure

I wanted to write about a powerful topic that must people avoid and tends to keep the majority of us down. It considered worst than any four letter word and even more taboo to talk about these days then BDSM. And that is “FAILURE” In a time when the law of attraction and positive thinking have practically become new age religions. Nobody wants to even

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Prepping For A Meeting: My Turn

“Stand Up!” Davina commanded, “Faster, FASTER!”

Desperately trying to move as quickly as humanly possible on unstable quivering legs was a harder task than one would expect.

Davina knew this, but her sympathy was lacking due to her own needs to meet her Boss’ requirements.

Impatient Davina, grabbed her assistant by the hair and arm, helping to peel her off the table.

Quickly spinning her around, Davina gazed into her assistant’s eyes

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Submissive Headspace Is Where You Long

Sub Question: How To Get Into A Submissive Headspace

Submissive Question:
i have finally figured out that i am far more submissive then i ever thought possible. That is all thanks to you and all the information you have given me. i don’t know where i would be without your guidance.

While i know i want to be more submissive to my mistress, i find there are times when i’m just not in the mood or i can’t get into a submissive headspace.

How can i get myself in the mood when i’m not or get into a submissive headspace, especially when my Mistress wants me to serve her?

Sincerely,
DK, New York

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Compartmentalize Your BDSM Self

Learn To Compartmentalize Your BDSM Self

Much of what we do in BDSM involves roleplay, and not just the ‘strict teacher / naughty student’ dress-up variety. Simply acting as the top or bottom in a scene is a role in itself, complete with its own responsibilities, energy, and intentions. The more we’re able to immerse ourselves in the headspace of our role during play, the more powerful the experience becomes.

The intense experiences we have during play have the potential to transform our everyday lives, for better or worse. For BDSM to be a healthy practice, it’s crucial that we refine our ability to cleanly separate fantasy from reality. Learning to compartmentalize BDSM will allow you to reap the benefits of kinky sexploration while continuing to function harmoniously outside the bedroom.

If we don’t learn to compartmentalize, BDSM can end up negatively impacting our psychological state, our relationships, and even our career.

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Female Sub Story: Teaching A Slave To Spoon

A fantasy night with Master by slave d A fictional female submissive Dominant male erotic story (i do not fantasize about purposely displeasing Master in any way, however, as a slave-in-training, i recognize there are going to be times where this may unintentionally happen. This is a fantasy about one of those instances.) It is early evening, and Master has just finished the dinner i

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