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BDSM Question: I am in the position where I have a female partner who wants so much to be a sub and wants me to dominate her. I love her deeply and as I am afraid to hurt her, I know that if I do not dominate her, I will probably lose her as she is deeply into the sub role. We have had a […]
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Boot worship is on many Dominants minds during their BDSM scenes. After all, there’s nothing more submissive than having a slave at your feet, licking your leather for as long as you tell them to do. But if you’re still a beginner to boot worship, it can help to understand how to construct a great boot worship scene for you and for your slave. Thankfully,
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Pain is a beautiful thing in BDSM, especially when it’s done right. No matter what your personal preference is for giving or receiving pain, you need to make sure that you’re giving your slave pain in a way that will not only cause them to feel hurt, but that will also cause them to feel ecstasy. And this takes practice, especially when the slave and
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Words are more powerful than we realize, but those who practice BDSM already know this. A Master or Mistress who carefully writes on their slave’s body will create a lasting impression, even long after the words have been washed away.
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A name is something that defines who we are, even when we don’t choose it ourselves. Our parents gave us a name for a particular reason, but when you’re in a relationship with a BDSM partner, it might become time to take on a slave name, just as a Master or Mistress might take on their title. Creating the separation between these two roles allows
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When you are interested in changing the way that you play with another person, you need to switch things up. Though they might like the sensation play that you do, over time, anyone will grow accustomed to the way that something feels on their skin. And since you can’t always use something harder on a person, you need to find new textures that will help
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Having the space to have BDSM fun is a bit of a luxury for most people. Not all of us can have fully equipped dungeons and basements, after all. With smaller spaces, like closets, you can still have a place to not only stash your BDSM gear, but also a slave that needs to learn a lesson. You can use even the smallest space to
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While breakups are never easy, they can become more complicated in a BDSM relationship. Because the relationship is based on one person trying to please another, a breakup can seem as though the slave has not done his or her job. Though this might be a part of the reason, usually breakups come from two people growing apart. Whatever the reason, there are better ways
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If you’re new to the idea of having a sub, then you might not know where to begin. You’ve seen how BDSM relationships play out in movies and in books, but when it comes to real life settings, that’s when things get tricky. You can’t instantly train a sub. Training begins with a series of steps to create trust between you and your slave, a
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Domme Question: I am new and I love your emails on how to. My friend has introduced me to BDSM and he is the submissive one. This really gets me going. I get hot just thinking about it. My prob. with being the Dome is that I am a pleaser and I am way too gentle. I like to relax him before I take it
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