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Creating Boundaries From Scratch

My upbringing didn’t prepare me for the concept of boundaries. Instead, I learned that privacy was seen as a negative and equated to secrecy. I also learned that self-sacrifice was one of the cornerstones of love and that to say no to someone you loved made you a mean, evil person. Needless to say, I left home primed and ready for victimhood, codependent relationships, and heartbreak.

I found myself in situation after situation where I was constantly made a doormat. It didn’t matter how nice I was or how often I changed myself, the expectation was for me to take all of my partners’ negativity and smile while doing so. It had gotten to the point where mistreatment was so normalized, I could never see the warning signs and found myself in one soul-sucking relationship after another.

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The Seduction of Abduction Play

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Astolaine M

The bag is pulled roughly over my head as strong arms lift me unceremoniously from the ground. I’m manhandled into the back of a vehicle, pushed to the floor, and held down as my wrists and ankles are tightly bound.

I let out a panicked scream and a large hand clamps my mouth shut. Through the rough material, I can hear a muffled male voice telling me to keep still and be quiet. I’m scared, I can’t see anything and my heart is racing. The engine starts up and we drive off into the black of night. I’m not sure where I’m being taken or what’s going to happen to me. I am helpless and at the mercy of my abductor.

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How to Master Fingering Fun

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training / By Debra Shade

My head rests on the red pad of the St Andrew’s Cross, my wrists and ankles fastened tightly, as my Sir delivers a paddling to redden my cheeks. I squirm a little, the impact stings, but it’s also making me very wet. Sexual tension bubbles as I try to catch Sir’s eye. I’m hoping he will read my mind and indulge me by bringing this

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Starting A BDSM Scene

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Dirk Hooper

My first experience crafting a scene with a submissive partner was a disaster. I read somewhere that you should have the submissive say some sort of repetitive mantra to begin the scene. The idea was to get her to have positive affirmation about being submissive to me and… whatever.

She was just not into it, the whole thing got derailed from the beginning, and I scrambled to recover.
First times are fraught with complexity and questions and awkwardness, and BDSM first times are not exempt.

It’s easy to forget what it’s like when you finally find someone that wants to play (win!) and is going to let you be dominant (double win!). But then what do you do next?

I’m going to do my best to help you through starting a scene.

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Why Flogging Is My Favorite Impact Play

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Dirk Hooper

A submissive girl I met at a munch invited me to my first play party. As my evening began, I was full of hopes and dreams and countless fantasies, but exceptionally short on experience. Not only did I learn a lot on that evening, but I got to play for the first time too. And that experience created a lifelong love of impact play that

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Behavior Modification: My Thirst for Self-Improvement

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Astolaine M

My nose sits uncomfortably close to the smooth baby blue bedroom wall and my eyes are drawn to the tiny spider that’s edging its way to the corner. I’m itching to shift my weight from foot to foot and stretch my arms toward the ceiling, but I don’t. Instead, I sigh inwardly and mentally run through the events that led to the extended period of

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What I Learned as a Submissive Helped Me be a Better Dominant

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training / By Dirk Hooper

I was sweeping the lobby of a dungeon in Dallas when a sudden burst of emotion overtook me, and I began to cry. It wasn’t sadness, but an overarching swell of what I was doing, who I was doing it for, and a deep sense of presence in that moment. Over the course of the last 20 plus years I’ve been a member of the

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BDSM Lifestyle 101: Making Your Fantasy a Reality

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Bratty Ann

I will forever remember the day I realized the lifestyle I had only ever dreamed possible, was actually my reality. Way back in December 2014, I knelt before my Sir, lifted my hair into a ponytail, and felt the titanium of my collar lock around my neck. I was in Heaven. Pure bliss. And couldn’t believe my fantasies were now a reality–and how in love

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Heightened Hogtie Pleasures

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Debra Shade

As a Board-Certified Clinical Sexologist, I counsel individuals and couples in overcoming barriers they may be experiencing with orgasm. Guiding individuals through experiences to ensure that they experience their best orgasm. In BDSM different positions can be utilized to not only bring on a different state of mind, but different types of orgasms and sensations that can release a new kind of energy and pleasure.

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Refocusing Harmful Traits

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Scarlette Hemsworth

While navigating the kink space, I’ve experienced many moments of vulnerability. Moments that shed light on some toxic traits that I wasn’t aware I possessed. A toxic trait, at least how I define it, is anything that is detrimental to yourself or another person in a relationship. All I knew is that these weren’t traits that I wanted to keep.

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Creating Boundaries From Scratch

The Seduction of Abduction Play

How to Master Fingering Fun

Starting A BDSM Scene

Why Flogging Is My Favorite Impact Play

Behavior Modification: My Thirst for Self-Improvement

What I Learned as a Submissive Helped Me be a Better Dominant

BDSM Lifestyle 101: Making Your Fantasy a Reality

Heightened Hogtie Pleasures

Refocusing Harmful Traits

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