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I’m an ex Dom who’s now wanting to be a submissive, I`m seeing a Dom who’s turned out to be a manipulator, but I’m hooked and I’m finding it hard to break free from him because of the way I feel about him, and I’ve broken one of my rules, which is NEVER date anyone you work with. And when I make him mad he […]
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The fact that W/we are able to openly participate in BDSM and Dominant/submissive power exchange relationships is a true privilege. One many enjoy but few realize how grateful W/we should all be to have the freedom and the rights to be able enjoy O/our kinks. For many these intensely powerful experiences give an individual an opportunity to finally let go of all their worries and
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BDSM Question: What and how is a collaring ceremony performed? I have earned my collar so, yes I would like for it to be a big deal. Anonymous Sharing Is Caring Share on facebook Share on pinterest Share on twitter Share on reddit Share on tumblr Share on digg Share on skype Share on stumbleupon Share on pocket Share on whatsapp Master Bishop’s Opinion Much
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Despite the commonly held belief that BDSM is essentially all about punishment, pain, whips, chains, and anything that might cause severe agony, the exact opposite is more commonplace. If you dissect the definitions of Bondage, Discipline, Sado, and Masochism, three of those words can be related to pain play, and even bondage can be used in a painful way, depending on how it is applied. If you search for BDSM, many images are submissives with strained faces being subjected to painful experiences. It can be hard to see past that first glimpse for many.
While much attention is focused on discipline and pain for dramatic effect, when it comes to actual submissive training, rewards and positive reinforcement tend to be more effective in submissive training.
As the old saying goes, “You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar.”
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Most of us can recall a time when we did something wrong as a child and then were punished for it. We were probably made to sit in a corner or take a ‘time out.’
When a slave has done something wrong, as W/we have learned from childhood, sometimes punishments can be effective at correcting the behavior that is if the submissive wants the behavior changed.
The point of the punishment is to link the inappropriate behavior with the feelings of the unpleasant punishment which will occur if the behavior is repeated. This allows people to learn (some learn more effectively from punishment than others) from their mistakes so they will remember to not let it happen again.
To do this, the Master/Mistress can employ a number of mind controls that will cause the slave to rethink their behavior and reconsider their future actions. Before you can include any kind of punishment training into your slave training there are a few necessities:
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Oh Halloween, the one day a year vanilla people around the world allow themselves to dress up and become the naughty person they truly want to be. Many kinky people dress up and join in all the naughty festivities. But for the most part the real naughty people, the true kinksters tend to get lost in the crowd. This year instead of dressing up for
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When a submissive is having a good time, they can drop into a feeling that is often called subspace. This is where the body begins to release chemicals that can make a submissive feel euphoric, floaty and in a trance-like state. While this is a positive feeling for the submissive and it may also signal that the Dominant is doing something right, it is also
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Venturing into the world of BDSM is never a simple task when your sole experience comes from porn sites and videos. You need more than just pictures to guide you along; especially when it comes to the use of things like clamps and clips. In the wrong hands (pun intended), not only can clamps and clips be a not so fun experience, but they can
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Your slave wants pleasure – we all do. As a Master or Mistress, you have an ideal opportunity to show your slave that orgasms are something that only you can allow. Not only does this encourage discipline in your slave, but it also allows you as the Dominant to fully have control over the sexual experience of your slave. You will show your slave that
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The first time you ever play with someone might be exciting and nerve-wracking at the same time. As with anything new you must be cautious and make your safety the utmost importance. Even if you know the other person, playing together for the first time means you need to be wary of what might happen and how it might happen. Here are a few do’s
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