BDSM Without Sex

July 19, 2010

For some, the whole point of whipping and other BDSM is to build up to an inevitable sex scene which is more enjoyable because of all of the adrenaline which has been built up through punishments and pain. But for others, just the pain and the submission that goes along with BDSM is all they want. They might not even have a sex partner who enjoys BDSM, but they might go be with other partners who will dominate them or they will dominate someone else for a night. Sometimes you don’t need to have sex in order to have a good time, though it’s certainly allowed between consenting adults.

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Controlling a Slave
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When you remove sex from the equation, the slave has to work on other parts of their training in order to be obedient. They don’t have sex as something which motivates, so they simply have to be willing to listen to a Master or Mistress because they are told to do something. Conversely, a Master or Mistress who controls a slave without the added help of sex will find that they have to be more dominating in their tone and in their behavior. This way, they can control the slave while also training them to behave in the way they need to behave. Getting inside of the slave’s head without the use of sex can be difficult, but it can certainly be done with regular training sessions which are based on pleasing the one who is in control of the situation.

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Using Sex as a Motivator
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You might also be in a relationship where the sex isn’t something that’s introduced at the start. But over time, as you grow to care about each other or to simply wanting to deepen the intimacy, sex might become a part of the relationship. In those situations, the sex might become a way to motivate the slave in order to behave well. That is, if they behave, then they will be able to enjoy sex with their Dominant partner. By dangling this sort of carrot for a while, the slave will see that they need to continue to be a good slave in order to get what they want in the relationship and the Dominant can get what they want as well.

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Why Sex isn’t Necessary
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Sex isn’t actually vital to the slave and Master or Mistress relationship because the control aspect should be strong enough on its own. If sex is something that is used as a motivator, chances are good the training isn’t strong enough on its own. A Master or a Mistress should be able to control the slave, even when they aren’t going to enjoy any sex at the end. The slave should be willing to do what is asked of them because it pleases their owner, not because they are getting a reward. A slave who is only motivated by rewards at the end is a slave who is going to present more problems for their Master or Mistress. This is a slave who has been spoiled when they think they should be rewarded for their hard work.

BDSM without sex is quite common in groups of BDSM lovers. Those who are interested in testing out power roles and dominance might simply want to dominate a person for a night to see how it feels or just to see what they can train a slave to do. And then they can choose to go home, without sex being a part of the agreement. While sex is often very enjoyable with BDSM – it is not crucial.

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Working with an Inexperienced Master

July 5, 2010

Maybe you’ve just gotten back to the BDSM world and you’re trying to find a new Master to serve. You’ve looked around BDSM dating sites and you’ve been talking to a guy who is more than willing to dominate you. It’s exciting. It’s refreshing. And you are ready to submit completely to this man. But when you finally meet up in person, you realize that his online persona is much more aggressive than he is in person. So what do you do? As the slave, it seems wrong to control the situation, but if you’re not getting what you want out of the situation, then what else can you do?

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Deciding Who’s in Control
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Every slave has been in a situation when they’ve felt like their Master hasn’t been doing all they can to control their submissive. It happens. Why? Many Masters are afraid of hurting their slaves, and this is probably because they’ve accidentally hurt someone in the past. Instead of simply hoping the Master will perk up, you need to sit down with each other to have a frank discussion about what you want from the relationship and what they want from the relationship. Chances are good that you both want the same thing, but letting the Master know that you can take a lot of training will allow them to feel more at ease in their role.

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Training Your Master?
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When you decided you wanted to be a slave, you gave up control of what happened in the bedroom. And that’s exactly what you want to do. But when your Master isn’t quite up to the task, it can feel as though you’re the Mistress – and you don’t want that role. So, is it really up to you to train your Master or should you be patient? Some would say that talking to a Master about what you want and then seeing how things go is the best way to avoid having to train your Master, but if that doesn’t work, then you might have to take another approach.

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How to Be Submissive When Your Master Isn’t Dominant
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No matter what your Master does or doesn’t do, take this new Master as a learning opportunity to be as patient and as submissive as possible in your role. Instead of leading your Master to what they need to do, simply wait until they have learned what they need to learn, until they do what you feel they should be doing. Listen to all of the commands and try to be as energetic as possible. Over time, your Master will realize just how much power he COULD exert over you, if only he’d try a little harder.

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Should You Give Him a Chance?
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As a slave, you might have found there are many more slaves on the market than there are available Masters. With this in mind, you might be tempted to wait things out with your hesitant Master as there really isn’t anyone else who wants to play with you. But this doesn’t mean that it’s your job to train anyone else – that’s not what you signed up for. What you will want to do is to try to see if things will work out, but if they don’t seem to improve after a certain period of time, it might be time to look for a Master who can truly control you.

Slaves shouldn’t settle for any old Master. If you want to be trained, you need someone who is up to the task. While every Master starts out without any knowledge, this doesn’t mean that you need to wait for them to learn.

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Pregnancy and BDSM

June 15, 2010

People from all walks of life enjoy BDSM. Some might enjoy some role playing with BDSM themes, while others live a life of 24/7 BDSM. No matter what you might practice, life has obstacles which may change the way you can approach your sex life. Pregnancy, for example, is something which can be a blessed event, and one that does not need to impede your BDSM life. You will need to make certain adjustments, to be sure, but you can still be just as frisky as you were before you found out the baby news.

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Talking with the Doctor
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If you’re a Mistress or a female slave, you need to talk with your doctor about your sex life when you’re pregnant. While you might think they’d never understand, realize that most doctors have already heard all there is to hear from their patients. And your story is no different and not going to be something which shocks them. By talking to your doctor in detail about what you do in your bedroom, you will allow them to monitor any changes in your health based on your history. While it might seem like this is unnecessary, it actually is quite necessary so that when problems do arise in your pregnancy, your sex life can be ruled out as a cause.

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What’s Off Limits
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With your newly pregnant body, it’s time to think about keeping that baby safe. Some doctors will tell you that overexerting yourself is something which will harm the baby. This is true if you haven’t already been overexerting yourself in the past. If you’re in fairly good shape, you can keep up the whipping and the paddling as a Mistress, but you need to make sure you’re not overdoing it. It might be a good idea to put on a discreet heart rate monitor to check to see that you’re keeping your heart rate in a healthy range, as prescribed by your doctor. As a pregnant slave, this might be a good time to focus less on physical training and more on mental training as a slave. Your Master might begin to teach you how to be a servant slave or how to follow certain commands as quickly as possible. Hitting your body with any sort of implement is not a good idea as it’s not certain whether physical pain can translate into stress for a baby.

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A New Way of Control
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Bondage can be tricky as well since the pregnant body will only be able to lie on its back after a certain point of the pregnancy. Sitting up is an option with hands tied behind and legs tied to the chair legs. Bondage should just not be as restrictive as any circulation loss can upset the fetus. Control might also take the form of task lists to accomplish rather than physical sessions. This will be a time when the Master and the slave, or the Mistress and the slave will need to change the way they look at the control, but it can actually be helpful in the long run after baby is born.

Once the baby is born, the pregnant participant of the BDSM relationship will need to rest for a few weeks to recover and to heal, depending on the birth and on the orders of the doctor. But once that time is up (assuming the couple still has the energy after caring for a child), BDSM can continue where it left off. Or some find the new and more mentally-focused BDSM to be more convenient, and perhaps even more challenging than before.

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***Please note: This article is not meant to replace professional medical advice. It is important (and your responsibility) that you the reader speak with your doctor before participating in any BDSM activities while pregnant.

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Show Your Dominant You Are Truly Sorry

June 3, 2010

As a slave, you are going to make mistakes – whether you want to or not. Your Dom/me might do this on purpose to see if you are willing to keep trying or you might simply have troubles learning certain things your Dom/me asks of you. In either case, you need to be ready as a slave to show your Dominant that you are truly sorry for what you’ve done. This way, your Dominant will know that you are willing to keep trying and to keep learning in each session you share together. Dominants, deep down, realize that slaves are not going to be perfect (what fun would that be?), but those slaves who take the time to show they are truly sorry are the ones that Dominants want to keep training. Those who show no remorse are slaves who probably weren’t planning on learning at all.

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What Was Your Mistake?
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Before you can begin to make up for the mistake you’ve made, you need to make sure you understand what you’ve done wrong. If you’re in the midst of a session when you do something incorrectly, chances are high that your Dom/me is going to point out what you’ve done wrong and correct you. But there may be other times when your Dom/me expresses their displeasure and you may not know what you’ve done. While it might seem uncomfortable to ask your Dominant what you need to do differently in the future, you need to ask if you’re not sure. This will show your Dom/me you are willing to learn and that you are willing to do better the next time.

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Are Apologies Enough?
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The first reaction many slaves have is to apologize profusely when they have made a mistake. And while this is certainly something a Dominant appreciates, apologies are only words. You might start off by saying you are sorry for something that you’ve done, but then you need to correct your mistake. You need to work hard to realize why what you have done wrong is wrong so that you don’t ever make that mistake again. Got that? You need to stop for a moment, correct yourself and move on. Later on, you might want to sit down with your slave journal and try to find out why you made the mistake in the first place. This way, you can solidify the correct behavior in your mind for the next session.

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Other Ways to Show You’ve Learned Your Lesson
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Aside from apologizing and correcting your actions, you need to make sure you are attending to your Dom/me’s every need. While you might have been able to make minor mistakes, missteps become snowballs rolling down a hill, growing bigger and bigger when they aren’t stopped. You need to be just about perfect from the time of the mistake on. This way, you will show your Dominant that you are a good slave and someone to keep in training. Now is not the time to become wrapped up in the mindset that you can do nothing right. Now is the time to begin realizing that you need to be more focused on what you SHOULD do.

As a slave, you will make mistakes. A lot of mistakes. But your job as a slave for your Dom/me is to take the time to learn from these mistakes, apologize, and learn from each misstep you make. Because you are committed to your Dom/me, you already knew this was a part of the deal and you’re motivated to doing the right thing, right? If not, maybe it’s time to rethink your role as this Dominant’s slave.

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The BDSM Slave Training 5th Edition

June 1, 2010

I just wanted to let everybody know about the release of the 5th edition of the bdsm slave training program. W/we at the bdsm training academy are always working on improving everything W/we do and the bdsm slave training program is no different. W/we have just added even more expanded and detailed content with specific examples to aid in your bdsm experiences to this already fully packed program.

W/we all wanted to delve deeper in some areas such as latex play, mummification, cbt, pussy torture and more. Not to mention discussions on why you would want to use these techniques in training and examples so you can incorporate them into your training. This way you can stop worrying about what to do and enjoy everything you decide to do.

Of course if you already have a copy of the BDSM slave Training program, then all you have to do is go back to the members training area and get yourself the new edition. As all members of the BDSM Training Academy receive free updates for life. That way your learning never ends.

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Turning Your Closet into a Dungeon

May 19, 2010

Most BDSM couples just don’t have the space to add in a dungeon or they’re living in an apartment without another level. Though this might seem like you are limited in the way that you can enjoy your darker desires, this isn’t completely true. When you are limited in the space you have, you simply need to be more creative with using the area around you. This should begin with looking to the areas of your home which you already have – and then using them for a number of BDSM purposes. Your closet is the best place to start.

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Cleaning Out the Closet
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The first thing you need to do is to find a closet which is going to have just enough space for a slave. Ideally, this closet should be in the bedroom where you can easily access the space and even sleep in the bed while your slave is stuck in their small dungeon. Take everything that you can out of the closet and see what space you can utilize. Many of the larger items in your closet can probably be moved elsewhere in order to devote this space to the slave’s new abode. Try to make enough room for the slave to sit down or stand up without being too cramped, though a little bit of a tight fit will only add to their feelings of being trapped and isolated.

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Some Additions to the Closet Space
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Some Masters and Mistresses can afford to purchase a cage which can then be put into the closet. But if you can not or the space doesn’t seem to be big enough, you might want to look into attaching some strong hooks and eyelets to the wall. These will allow you to run rope and other binding materials through, keeping your slave in place until you are ready to handle them. You might also want to cover the walls with blankets or something soft so the slave doesn’t get too cold or they don’t rub against a rough wall – unless you want them to. In addition, including some other sex toys in the space will allow you to easily reach for the butt plugs, vibrators, and other accoutrements you might need. Having blindfolds, gags, ropes, and other equipment hanging on the wall also keeps things out of sight from others in the house.

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What to Do with a Slave in the Closet
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The most common activity for a slave in the closet is to simply be bound or locked up in the area in some way. For some Masters and Mistresses, this is a good way to train a disobedient slave while other owners might simply choose to keep their slave in there as often as possible – to remind them of their place. A slave can be bound up, gagged, and left in this dungeon for short periods of time (remember, it’s never a good idea to leave a trussed up person alone since bondage can go wrong and gags can become deadly). This will cause them to feel altered and to feel like they’re being forgotten by everyone else in the world but their owner. A small lock on the door can add to this excitement and isolation as well.

A slave changes when they know there is a small dungeon waiting for them. They begin to rely more heavily on their Master or Mistress as they know what they might face if they are not behaving well. This small dungeon also allows a BDSM couple to see whether a larger dungeon might be a good investment in the future.

>>Always remember never leave a bound person unattended.
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Trust and BDSM

May 3, 2010

Trust is something that’s discussed frequently in traditional relationships, but this is something that’s even more important when it comes to BDSM. Trust is what BDSM is based on – and without a sense of trust, a relationship can fall apart quickly and in a destructive way. In order to make the most of your BDSM relationship, whether you’re the Dominant or the submissive, you need to make sure that you are working on trust issues before you even step into the dungeon. The play area is not where you figure out whether you trust someone or not with your well being.

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Should You Give Trust Immediately?
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Just as in any other relationship, trust is not something that necessarily happens right away. In many relationships, you might have troubles giving over trust to just anyone. This is a good thing, not a restrictive thing. You need to make sure you know the person before you can allow them to play with you or you can dominate them. Trust may be something that’s easier to give over when the person you are with has already been vetted by friends, but even in that case, you need to make sure you are comfortable with this person. Start out slowly, just getting to know each other outside of the dungeon before you set foot inside. You might want to begin by emailing each other and then meet each other in a public place. Over a few weeks, you will begin to see whether you are a good fit – and from there, you can begin to play with each other.

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Cultivating Trust
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However, trust is not a static concept. You need to continue to cultivate trust as you play together. There are a few things which need to be ground rules when you are playing together:

>>You respect each other’s time – There’s nothing more upsetting than someone who does not respect the other person’s time. Make sure you both can commit to showing up on time consistently.

>>You respect each other’s boundaries – Boundaries are set up in the contract when you are beginning to establish a clear Master/Mistress and slave relationship. These boundaries need to be followed at each and every session.

>>The safe word means stop – You need to make sure that your safe word is being used appropriately and that you are listening to it. All play stops when that word is used.

Trust is something that can be lost when these rules aren’t followed time and time again. Thus, it’s important to begin to follow these rules from the start.

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When Trust is Broken in BDSM
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As in any relationship, trust can also be broken in a BDSM situation. In these cases, you have a few different things that you can do. First of all, you need to discuss the breach and then work on ways to avoid this in the future. Create a time period in which trust will need to be earned again. If in this time trust is not reestablished, then you might want to consider whether the relationship is working. Sometimes a person just isn’t trustworthy or doesn’t want to work on the relationship anymore. And when this becomes apparent, it’s time to move on, for both of your sakes.

No matter what kind of relationship you are in, trust is paramount in order for the relationship to work for both sides. Since bodily harm and mental health are at stake in some BDSM relationships, trust is not just something to discuss, it’s something to hold dear and it’s something to take seriously.

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Countless submissives and even Dominants are both physically and emotionally hurt by actively playing with someone they didn’t trust. BDSM is not about having new experiences with someone you don’t fully trust. I receive tons of emails every month from people who have been injured by an individual that just would not stop or were emotionally crushed when they gave everything and were unexpectedly abandoned.

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Becoming a Graceful Slave

April 7, 2010

Gracefulness is one thing that comes to mind when watching a well-trained slave. They move easily from one position to the next and they seem to always be aware, not only of themselves, but also of the needs of their Master. So are some slaves just inherently better than others? Not exactly. Some slaves are simply working harder at becoming graceful than others. By practicing how to move, thinking about their actions, debating how to speak, and reviewing their behaviors later, these slaves are becoming the kinds of slaves that you long to be. Of course, taking a lesson from other slaves is never a bad idea. After all, this will only help you when you serve your Master.

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Watching How You Move
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The way you move seems to be the thing most people link to grace and to gracefulness. But the way you move isn’t necessarily grace – it’s how you choose to move that matters. To move with grace, you will want to look at each movement as being connected. For example, when you lift something from the floor, you will slowly move to get it and then slowly move up. Refraining from jerky movements will allow you to look graceful, even during awkward movements. Be deliberate in the way that you move from one place to another, focusing on smooth movements of your arms and legs. This is a great time to begin to think about manners and about what is considered appropriate as well. For example, you should always keep your legs crossed demurely when sitting or when getting out of a car.

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Thinking About Your Actions
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Just taking the time to think about your actions and decisions will encourage you to be a more graceful slave. Slow your mind after your Master has asked you something, and then think about what you need to do. While there will be times when your Master might want an immediate response, most of often this is not the case. You will have a few moments to consider what you need to do and how you will want to do it. And the more you practice this deliberate thought, the more quickly deliberate actions will follow.

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Taking Time to Speak
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When asked a question, you should take a few moments to consider your response. This will allow you to make the best response possible, while also helping you to understand the question fully. When you are speaking, take your time to respond, speak slowly and think about the word choices you are making. While this might seem awkward at first, the more this is practiced, the easier it becomes. You don’t want to rush answers as they will not be carefully considered – and they will not be graceful.

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Reviewing Your Efforts Later
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Later after your training sessions, consider your actions and how you could have done them better. This will allow you to make notes as to what you want to do differently the next time, while also helping you to see how well you have already done. If there are any issues that you think you need more training with, ask your Master for guidance. Your Master will appreciate the time you are taking outside of your sessions to become a better servant and submissive.

Grace does not come naturally for everyone. But that does not mean that grace can not be a goal you set for yourself within your Master and slave relationships. By simply learning to be deliberate, you can begin to learn how to be gracious, elegant, and a slave worth showing off.

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Commanding Euphoria

March 10, 2010

Domination can take control of many different aspects of your life but My favorite way is through orgasm control. When you are performing tasks for your Dominant your mind can wander from time to time. By the time you have finished your task you can forget why you were doing it in the first place. There is no doubt why you are doing it or who has control when it comes to orgasm control.

While orgasm control is a very difficult and extremely lengthy process to teach, it is also the most rewarding experiences a submissive will ever experience. Only a very few dedicated submissives ever get to truly experience the pleasure found from this form of control.

What is Orgasm Control: It is a form of submissive training when a submissive freely gives up control of their own orgasms. This means when, where and how. A submissive is not allowed to touch themselves without permission and/or orgasm without permission. When this becomes much more fun for the Dominant is when after much time and intense training that a submissive finally is able to orgasm solely from their Dominant’s command. No stimulation or physical contact at all, just one single command for a submissive to orgasm.Orgasm Control proves how the mind is the biggest sex organ in the body.

Many women have never had an orgasm ever or they take a very long time to reach an orgasm. Since it’s so hard for a woman to orgasm people believe that orgasm control is just not possible or a myth the same way the G-spot was thought to be a myth.

Not only is it possible to make a submissive woman orgasm on command it is one of the most intense sexual experiences you will ever have. Listen to what sub samantha had to say about her experiences in the BDSM Training Academy’s Female Submissive Training.

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"Sex can be a very frustrating pastime, you read about all the amazing sex that characters have, you watch porn where women just keep on going and scream out in ecstasy and then you look at your own experiences where everything becomes far more prosaic. I always believed that there was more to sex than I had been led to believe by friends and family, but every stupid fumble in the dark just left me even more disheartened and disappointed. I also found that my body just shut down if I actually managed to achieve an orgasm, which isn’t the best thing to have happen if your partner still wants to carry on; it can make things very difficult.

Entering into training with Master Bishop I really hoped that he would be able to help me with understanding my body and to become a more fully rounded sexual being. I had spent some time with a Master a year or two before and knew that I enjoyed being a submissive but it had been a very low key relationship and I wanted to learn more. I knew there was a whole world of experiences that I was missing out on, could an online Master help me?

The training I receive from Master Bishop is beautifully organized and from the start he pushed me to explore my own body and its femininity. He showed me how to take better care of myself and gave me just the start I needed to begin a healthy eating and fitness plan. Somehow it was so much easier to stay on track knowing that Master Bishop had told me how to eat rather than trying to survive on my own willpower alone. It wasn’t long before a new healthier and happier body began to emerge from under the fat that had accumulated over the last few years.

As the training progressed Master Bishop began to take more control of my body and I found myself happy to give it up to him, hadn’t he already given me a slimmer figure, what else could he show me if I let him. The first time Master Bishop commanded me to come I felt as though everything suddenly made sense. I had been on my own for a while and had of course masturbated and brought myself to orgasm but controlled orgasms are so much more satisfying. Looking back I can see how important it was that I got used to obeying Master Bishop and ensuring that I only ever achieved an orgasm at his command. I could play with my pussy at his behest for as long as he desired and only when he commanded would my body explode into orgasm.

It became clear very quickly that it was far more fulfilling to orgasm at Master Bishop’s command than to give myself orgasms. Then there came the lesson when he modified his command, for weeks I had touched myself as he ordered and brought myself to a climax on his request, now just as I was on the brink of an orgasm, he ordered me to stop touching myself; I obeyed and then heard his command to come. My body responded even as my brain questioned whether it could, I couldn’t breathe and it was though something exploded in my head. This orgasm was unlike any other I had ever experienced, it came from deep within me and I could almost feel myself disappearing into it. My body kept responding to Master Bishop’s command, the orgasm rolled on for a few minutes with my whole body experiencing an ecstasy which had been totally unknown until that point. I didn’t want the orgasm to finish yet when it did and I began to catch my breath and become aware of my surroundings again, the next amazing thing happened, as I came down from the orgasm and my body relaxed feeling totally satisfied I knew that at the same time it hadn’t shut down, my body was still ready for sex. The gift was incredible, now if I ever found myself in the middle of a scenario with a Dom I would be able to continue to serve him, I was fast becoming a far better sub than I could ever have been before.

It was what I had hoped for at the beginning of the training, my body was being controlled by someone else and I was loving it. You spend so much time in your life stressing about how you look, how you respond to everyday situations, now all that has been taken away. Someone else cares about you; someone else tells you how to look after yourself, how to present yourself to the word and how to react. People start to notice too, I have received more compliments about my body, more comments on how happy and contented I seem, how graceful and feminine I am becoming than ever before in my life. If this is what giving up control of my body can give me then I gladly do so.

I can hear people wondering if what I have just described is actually possible, can a person come solely on command, with no stimulus. The stimulus is actually still there; my pussy is more alive than ever before, getting ready for my weekly lesson starts the process, then just hearing Master Bishop’s voice is enough to start my pussy becoming wet and ready for whatever he wishes me to do. I have become a far more sexual woman and my body is hungry for the gift of an orgasm from Master Bishop. Becoming so turned on, knowing that Master Bishop wants to have a sub ready for him means that it is only a very short step to that body responding exactly as he wants. It is also such an amazing pay off, I cannot begin to explain just how much more exciting the orgasms I have now are than in my life before Master Bishop. His training is making me a far more sensual, interesting and graceful woman and for that there are not enough words of thanks available.

Master Bishop, of course, didn’t stop at just giving me amazing orgasms he began to take me further, he showed me how my body would respond to his voice under different circumstances, how pleasure could be found in pain and restraint. I became used to having my body obey his command, the freedom of simply obeying and coming upon his command was so fulfilling for me. I had changed so much over the months I had spent on my training and I was still hungry for more.

Then during one lesson I came as he commanded but then he told me to come a second time and my body did so, I couldn’t believe it, never before had I ever managed multiple orgasms and here was my body coming and coming again and again, I was blown away. I wanted to run out into the street and tell the whole world what had just happened to me. I finished the lesson still reeling from the whole experience and so excited about what was happening to me. Me, the woman who had seemed to have given up on life and sex was becoming a truly sexual submissive woman brimming with excitement for life and all it could bring to her. I hadn’t actually realized just how lost I had become, oh I went through life and all its paces but nothing reached me and I was beginning to fade into the back ground of existence, which I assure you is not a nice place to be. Now I was taking more care of myself, walking taller and starting to take life by the scruff of the neck again and say to the world that life was good and exciting. Becoming a submissive had not caged me in, rather it had broken through walls that I had put up around myself and demanded that I started to become more aware of who I was and where I was going.

Did I see this coming when I signed up for the training with Mister Bishop? I thought I would listen to him for a few weeks, have a bit of fun and then get bored, which is pretty much what happens with most of the projects I start. Now, though I am into my fifth month of training and I am happier, healthier and more satisfied than I have been in a long time. I have had times where the training has been difficult and challenging, I would be a liar if I said it had all been plain sailing, but the level of support I have received from Master Bishop is wonderful. He understands that I am fallible and insecure and he lifts me up and helps me through the difficult times. Giving up control of my body to Master Bishop has to be the best thing I have ever done for myself and I can’t wait to see what he has in store for me in the future. I never thought that I would be truly happy as a submissive, Master Bishop has proved me wrong, my body and mind are stronger, clearer and more sexual than ever before in my life and long may it continue."

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Online Female Submissive Experiences

March 10, 2010

Here Are Just A Few Comments From Submissives That Have Experienced Master Bishop’s Online Female Submissive Training

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You Have Shown That You Know What This Trainee Needs Even Better Than She Does

Trainer,

This trainee is very grateful for all the time and effort You have put into her training. Before training, this trainee may have only thought about submission occasionally throughout her life, but now this trainee has come to learn how deeply she needs to be treated as the submissive that she is every day, all day. By helping this trainee to fully acknowledge her desires, this trainee can now experience the freedom which comes with expressing one of the most important parts of herself which has been begging for release for a very long time. For this, this trainee is eternally grateful.

This trainee really appreciates the required daily rituals which You have imposed since they help this trainee to keep her focus on You and her duty to be sexually eager to please You at all times. This trainee loves being reminded of You from the moment she wakes up to the time she goes to sleep each night. Even something as simple as eating brings happy thoughts of You to mind because of Your dietary rules. This trainee remains hot and wet all day with the anticipation of the possibility of being used at anytime for Your pleasure.

This trainee is very thankful that You require her to feel horny all day since this has brought out this trainee’s true nature. Being so wet and ready to serve You feels so good and natural for this trainee. Hiding underneath this trainee’s conservative exterior has been a very horny slut waiting to be released. Now that it has been released, this trainee is extremely thankful that You are available to direct and control that energy so that it does not become either misdirected or wasted. Although this trainee did have a hard time (and still struggles sometimes) with not being allowed to orgasm without permission, this trainee now appreciates that rule since she knows how much better her orgasms are when they come out of Your control. You have strengthened this trainee’s orgasms so much over the past few weeks that it almost feels as if this trainee never really had one before. Also, not being able to have orgasms whenever this trainee wants to increases this trainee’s awareness that Your sub body is for Your pleasure and giving pleasure to You is what arouses this trainee the most.

You have had a wonderful impact throughout all of my day-to-day activities. This trainee feels more happy and at ease throughout the day knowing that she has found the true purpose of her previously neglected inner feelings. This trainee has also noticed that she gets even more attention from men than she previously did wherever she goes. Whether that is because of the total happiness she projects or the sexuality which constantly oozes from Your sub body (or both), this trainee does not know. But, it is always a nice self-esteem boost even though this trainee knows that none of those men could ever give her anything close to all You have given even if it has just been through a computer. You understand so well what this trainee needs. In fact, You have shown that You know what this trainee needs even better than she does.

This trainee also truly appreciates Your willingness to listen to and give feedback on this trainee’s comments. It feels good to know that this trainee’s thoughts can be considered by You while at the same time You do not fall back on giving this trainee the discipline and control which she needs. This trainee appreciates knowing that You are available to correct her in case she strays from what You have decided is best for her. This trainee is very grateful for all You have done for her and hopes to repay all You have given her through pleasing You to the very best of her ability, whenever or however You decide.

Sincerely and Completely Yours,

trainee j

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I Am The Most Happy I Have Ever Been In My Life

i am the most happy i have ever been in my life. i owe it to You and my friends that i have found that are like me. i still can’t believe it! i really thought everyone in this world was vanilla, and i was alone, and couldn’t tell anyone anything about what i get turned on thinking about. Now i have actually done it, and thanks to my Master i found out that i really do like it, and i don’t have to hold back about telling him anything. He thinks i am a great slave and You are enriching his life too, because i am always telling him about what i’ve been doing and learning from my BDSM e-course. He says i… keep it interesting,lol You do Trainer. You influence people through training me. i am a happier person, and it makes other people around me happy too. You must be having a really wonderful life for helping people the way you do. You are a very special person, and i am grateful to be Your trainee. i am trusting You more and more.

Becoming a better slave is why i think so highly about you Trainer, and the BDSM Training Academy. You have helped me so much. It is very difficult to read and translate it into reality without a teacher. You have helped me to accept my mindset of a slave/trainee. You have taught me so much in the last 6 weeks of training, and even before that when i bought the Slave Training Manual on-line. i was so confused about all of the changing and not really knowing what to do or how to act for my Master. i am just so grateful for You, for not rejecting me, for accepting me that i am very new, and i don’t always know what to do or how to act. If it weren’t for You and the very kind people i’ve met in the lifestyle, i just don’t think i would find true happiness in my life. All of my friends and family and my Master have been commenting on my new affect. i am happy, i smile and have fun, more self confident. Men go out of their way to say good morning to me, to get the door for me, it is really a different world i live in now. i got a real deal on the training i am receiving, the help i get is priceless, and i think what i receive is the best bargain i’ve ever received. i’ve got a whole new outlook on life, and i know i will not stagnate and stop living. i am going to keep progressing toward the best i can be from here on out and that is a very good feeling. i hope the same for anyone else that is starting to explore this lifestyle too.

trainee n

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