How To Be A Good Sub When You Are Sick

November 8, 2010


Chances are high that at some point of slave training, you will become sick. And when you’re sick, you might not have the ability to call ‘off’ from your slave duties. In order to make sure you are still being a good slave and doing what your Master wants you to do, here are some ways to handle the inevitable scene where you’re the victim of germs which are more dangerous than your Master/Mistress can be.

Speak Up

Sometimes, you just can’t avoid getting the latest bug in town, no matter what you do. The first thing you need to do is to talk to your Dom/me. He might very well tell you to stay in bed so that you can emerge a stronger slave when you’re done. And this also gives the Dom/me the chance to say no to you and to say no to your germs. You might also find this starts a good conversation about whether sickness is a reason to cancel or to reschedule a session. Talk with your Dom/me about the symptoms you are having, careful not to over-exaggerate how you are feeling. This will allow the Dom/me to determine if certain activities he had planned will still be able to go on. For example, if you can’t breathe through your nose, a gag is going to be a bad idea. Take a minute or two to check in with your Dom/me as soon as you realize that you’re sick – preferably before the session – so that you can both determine what needs to happen next.

Do Your Best in the Scene

If you end up going into the scene anyway with your sickness, the best advice is to make sure you’re doing your best. You will still need to do what your Dom/me wants you to do and while you might not feel 100%, this may also be a valuable lesson. Sometimes when slaves are pushed hard during times of illness, they can perform better than they might when they are well. Why is this? This is due to the fact that a slave who has to work harder is one that is often working harder than they might try when they are well and illness free. By showing your Dom/me that you are willing to still fight through your sickness, you will also make a strong impression on your work ethic and on your submission to your Master/Mistress.

Know Your Limits

At the same time, if you are running a high fever or your stomach is upset, it might be a good idea to be clear as to what your limits are. If you simply don’t feel well enough to go on, you need to be ready and you need to be willing to say this to your Master/Mistress, even if you’re in the middle of a scene. Speak up and let your Dom/me know that you absolutely can not do anything more. This way, your Dom/me isn’t hurting you and you’re not hurting yourself by not speaking up. You’re not a machine, after all – no matter what you might think your role is.

A good slave is going to get sick and in these times, you can choose to push yourself harder than you might otherwise. While this is a good lesson, there may be times when you are unable to do anything more or even be in a scene. It happens. You’re human. And you can always make up for the scene when you’re feeling better.


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