Submissive Training Lesson 1: Communication
Submissive Training Lesson: Discover the three submissive holes that must be open and available for the Dominant’s use at all times
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What I Learned as a Submissive Helped Me be a Better Dominant
I was sweeping the lobby of a dungeon in Dallas when a sudden burst of emotion overtook me, and I began to cry. It wasn’t sadness, but an overarching swell of what I was doing, who I was doing it for, and a deep sense of presence in that moment. Over the course of the last 20 plus years I’ve been a member of the
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Who Says You Can’t Have Kids and a BDSM Relationship?
Hi Mistress Sophia and Master Bishop, I have absolutely loved all the emails you have sent and learnedso much from each. There is one problem that my husband and I are having and that isthat we have three children, but we want to experience morewithin our Dom/sub relationship. We have just started exploring bdsm within our relationship, but Idon’t want our children to know about
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Preventing Injury In BDSM
Accidents certainly happen in the world of BDSM – especially to newer players on the scene. But just because you will certainly have something go wrong at some point doesn’t mean that you need to simply sit back and wait for it to happen. You can take steps to help not only prevent problems, but also you can learn how to handle accidents and injuries
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Dealing with Resistance to Slave Training
I know it sounds shocking that a slave would resistbut it does happen. This is an important lesson for a Dominant andsubmissive to understand: Though the question of whether or not punishment is an effectiveway to deal with resistance to slave training, the answer of justhow to deal with slave training resistance is somewhat unclear.But what is clear is the idea that resistance to slave
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Humiliation and Your Slave Training
Humiliation is a favored way to begin to create the idea of controlin a Master and slave relationship, but that doesn’t mean itdoesn’t have its own specific ways to work well – and to not workwell for a relationship. By learning the techniques of humiliationas well as when to use it, you can use this as an effective slavetraining tool. The trick with humiliation is
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The Keys To Role Play
How To Get The Most Out Of A Role Play Scene Role playing can be an amazing way to turn up the intensity of anysexual relationship, but even more so in a bdsm partnership. Whenyou add the element of role playing, you can further create a senseof authority and control in a scene. But there are good ways to dothis and bad ways to do
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Don’t Make This Punishment Mistake
When you’re actively looking to train a slave as a part of yourlife, you need to be wary of ‘experts’ that speak of punishment asthe ultimate way to control a slave and to have them do what youask of them. Punishment has many other uses in your slave traininglife that you will want to consider. The problem with punishment and slave training is that it
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Whips, Chains And Floggers, Oh My
When you think of BDSM, you probably think of whips, chains, floggers and all of the other implements of pain and control. And why not? But when you’re trying to start your own exploration of BDSM, it will help if you learn what’s available to use, what it’s used for, and why it’s used. By knowing this, you can stock your ‘toy box’ with only
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