Wrestling and BDSM Training

Wrestling is a kink that many people often forget about.  Its the perfect way to physically Dominate your submissive and let them know who is truly in charge. The Dom and sub can wrestle each other and the Dom gets the sub into a position they can not get out of that is when the real fun begins. You too can incorporate wrestling into your BDSM playtime, maybe as a way to spice things up or perhaps as a new way of showing your submissive that you will always be in control of them, even if it is just physically. And no, you don’t need to be a professional wrestler in order to take part in the fun.

Competition in the Bedroom

Sometimes, you just want to add a bit more adrenaline to your day so that you can enjoy your partner and still be in control. If you’ve been finding that your BDSM training sessions feel like the Dominant is doing all the work, it’s time to try something different with wrestling. All you need to do is to get down on the ground with your partner and see who can get into the controlling position. Ideally, the Dominant should always be the one who wins, so they should work hard to either learn wrestling moves or to learn what their submissive might try in order to stay in control.

Take some time to wrestle with clothes on to see who wins, then have another round with wrestling without clothes, and then see what happens when a Dominant wrestles a bound slave – yes, that sounds like cheating, but when you’re the one in control…why not?

How to Wrestle Dirty

Dirty wrestling is certainly the name of the game, but there are other ways that you can make sure that you’re the one who wins:

• Get on top – This is the easiest way to always be in control of your opponent. From that position, the person who is on the bottom will be unable to move and they will be unable to get you off of them easily.
• Pin down appendages – The more arms and legs you can pin down, the more easily the other person will be unable to move and to fight back.
• Have toys ready – When you have your submissive in the losing position, it’s time to get out any sort of training tools you have (i.e. cock rings, handcuffs, etc.). You can make them even more submissive and take control of them to a greater extent.
• Tease them – Just rubbing the other person’s genitals or other sensitive areas can throw them off of their game, so they might end up giving you control when they lose their focus.

*** One rule to remember in wrestling is if you injure your opponent you are automatically disqualified.  If you break your submissive toys while playing with them not only will you lose the match but you won’t have any submissive toys to play with.  Take care of your submissive while wrestling with them don’t try to physically break them because you don’t want to lose.

Add Wrestling to Training

You might want to create a situation in which wrestling is just one more tool in your training. Clear out a space in the dungeon and put down soft mats or covers. From there, tell your slave to try to take you down and see what they do. Often, they will not give their all on the first try, making them easy to pin. You might also want to create this wrestling opportunity as a way for a slave to gain privileges, but of course, they won’t win.

Wrestling may not seem like a usual way for slaves and Dominants to relate, but sometimes the physical aspect of your relationship needs a little tweaking, and getting down and dirty with your slave is just the way to do it. Don’t worry if you don’t know what you’re doing, half the fun is figuring it out anyway. Of course, secretly taking a wrestling class won’t hurt your chances either.

Regards,

Mistress Brianne

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