Humiliating Your Slave Without Words

A look is all it takes for some slaves to feel like they are in their place. If you’re a Mistress who wants to be that woman who can simply turn to their slave and remind them of their position, you’re not alone. The idea of humiliating your slave without words is one that turns on many a BDSM practitioner, but how do you achieve this sort of practice? It turns out that you can move to a more silent training posture quite easily. Here are three steps to making sure your slave knows what to do and how you feel about them, without opening your mouth to speak.

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Feel Confident in Your Role
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The idea of being intimidating without speaking is something which can be difficult for a newer Mistress. You are still learning how to make sure your slave is doing what you want them to do. And while punishments can come easily, emotional control is not as simple to learn. Right now, your goal needs to be to fill yourself with confidence. And while this sounds impossible, the idea of faking it until you make it can be just as effective. What you need to do is to start by walking into every scene with your slave prepared. You should know exactly what to expect in every scene and prepare for it ahead of time. This way, your slave knows that you know more than they do, putting them instantly into their position. If you walked into a scene not knowing what to do, how will a slave take you seriously?

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Practice Your Facial Expressions
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It sounds a little corny, but practicing your wicked smile or arched eyebrow in the mirror will help you create expressions that will humiliate and intimidate your slave. Think about ways you could look at your slave in order to put them in their place – and then use them as often as possible during scenes. The slave will then connect the expressions to the actions of the scenes, and then when those expressions are made in public, the slave will instantly be brought back to feelings of being humiliated. You might also want to keep track of the facial expressions you make during scenes which seem to be more effective than others. This way, you can practice these as well or look at them in the mirror to see what they look like to the slave.

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Stay Silent
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While this might seem to be too simple of a direction, staying silent in regards to your slave can be just as effective a humiliation technique as pointing out their mistakes and flaws. By avoiding direct interaction with your slave, you will show not only the slave, but also the rest of the world, that you regard your slave as lower than low. Even in scenes with the two of you, simply not responding directly to the slave can be an effective humiliation tool. Talk about the slave as though they are not there or simply ignore them. This will cause the slave to doubt themselves and to begin to feel as though you regard them as lower than lower.

Humiliation might seem easier with harsh words and demeaning positions, but it’s when you don’t say anything at all that the slave is left on their toes. Those periods of silence may mean little to you, but your slave is going to constantly question why you are being quiet, what they have done, etc. And that’s a form of slave training that no book can teach.

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